What DO U REALLY WANT?  

Kittypurrfectt 51F
15 posts
7/29/2006 7:31 pm

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8/5/2006 1:23 pm

What DO U REALLY WANT?

Do you ever wonder if U will find peace?
A place that U find quietly charming, relaxful.

A place 2 call your own.

Someone that is there 4 U, always, unconditionally. No fighting.

We can debate issues, but not cruel fighting with words.

Wondering why me?

Why I start over so many times, even if I stay longer in a relationship just 2 make it work.

Is it worth it?

I think if I didna have my daughter to live for that I'd just almost give it all up & say da heck with it all.
But she needs me - so I need her.


TrueSoulSharer2 50M

7/30/2006 7:02 am

Kitty, I think everyone can find a place of peace. To me it sounds like you feel that way with your daughter and I bet her love is unconditional. All any of us really want is to be loved and respected. It's also nice when someone "gets" us. For that to happen we need to find someone who actually truly listens to us. Did you ever find that you were so excited to share a story with someone and just when your getting into it they interrupt to relate how they had a similar experience, etc? These folks are a bit narcissistic and are able to listen only long enough to have the story be about them. Those folks will never get you- look for the one who does. If a person is willing to listen completely then they are also the type that can debate without cruelty. Debate is a great exercise for the mind. If you considered your life "A great book in progress" then starting over is just another chapter and some chapters are longer than others. The book of your life is so worth it Kitty and you can rewrite it any way you want! I hope you never give up and I hope the next chapter is the best one yet! You are special and unique and should be proud.


Kittypurrfectt 51F

8/2/2006 5:00 pm

Thanks 4 da response.
I appreciate it.


maenstreak1957 59M/51F
1 post
8/3/2006 1:57 pm

hello kitty,Every trial and tribulation stands for growth,every 7 years when things change. do inventory and look over your life good or bad you weed it out. that way you can see whats up or see what you have to do. Just keep your haed to the sky one day everything is going to work it self out. be good or be good at it.
663 in the buckeye told you that.


lngxcumin 44M
1 post
9/3/2006 5:42 pm


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