What is up with wanting to meet and then not doing it?  

KinkyMTgirl 38F
562 posts
7/18/2005 11:29 pm

Last Read:
4/3/2006 7:48 am

What is up with wanting to meet and then not doing it?

I was talking to a guy online. Looked very forward to spending the afternoon with him fucking, and he was a no-show!! Never got any apology from him for not showing, nothing!! All I wanted was to have a good time and fuck. But I get the feeling he was messing with me. I am trying to decide whether or not to pull my ad from AdultFriendFinder or not. I love blogging and stuff, but I have not been having much luck with the meeting people part!

I just wanna fuck, people!! I know I probably sound like a whore, but I love sex and since I don't have a significant other, I THOUGHT this would work for me!

And lately, when I'm alone and "playing" I find my thoughts wandering to anal sex. I really want to try it again!! But I'm really tired of playing alone...I want to have a play partner! HELP ME!! Most guys would love to fine a Horny, no-strings type of girl! come on! where are you!?

edward845 30M
1 post
7/19/2005 8:20 am

well where abouts are you? I'm looking to fuck someone...

KinkyMTgirl 38F
66 posts
7/19/2005 10:52 am

I'm in Montana, hun.

rm_CJforU2 61M
3 posts
7/20/2005 3:13 pm

Kinky, I'm just down the road a bit (and I'm in the same mood you are). But, I need to know you'll respect me in the morning?

Ohgeez69 50M
15 posts
7/20/2005 10:12 pm

Well sweatheart if you just want to have a little fun then look me up and all you have to do is ask.

I love to play and please

rm_WizardTim12 50M
44 posts
7/21/2005 3:21 pm

The meeting people part is tricky, that's for sure. It's been quite some time since I had an ad on for meeting people, but I think most of the basics are still true. There are, unfortunately, quite a few people on this site who are still "emotional" teenagers, and just want to mess with people. Propose to meet, then think it "funny" to not show up. Others probably think the idea sounds good, but then lose their nerve when time to meet. And, I imagine, quite a few other reasons.
My suggestion, for what it's worth, is take a little bit longer to chat online (this isn't a criticism by the way, just a comment). I think most of the time, you'd do fine with meeting even if you didn't talk very much. But I think if you stick a little longer with visiting, you'll improve your odds. A lot of the idiots won't have the patience for sticking with the chatting. Also, in case you have only exchanged e-mails with people, I'd definitely suggest chatting online for a while, the interactive part "usually" gives you a better idea of the person. Especially if done a few times. (This may be exactly how you've already arranged meetings, but I didn't know, so thought I'd pitch these suggestions in). Your first instincts aren't always right, but they usually are. If someone you chat with is giving you "red flags", or strange vibes, you may want to stop talking, or downplay meeting, and see what happens.
I'm sorry you're having trouble meeting, it's always frustrating to think how simple it should be, and how complicated it really is. My experience on meeting was positive, but that's going to be different for everyone, and if it really gets too frustrating, then pulling the plug is, of course, a decision you'll have to make. Good luck.

rm_snoman02 50M

7/21/2005 3:36 pm

Hey T ......... Had I been your date, you would not have been let down! I guess it is time for us to get together. Check your mail.

Steve30126 41M
1 post
7/21/2005 6:28 pm

where are you? I'm in Atlanta..I feel that way too

RattySaverTucks 48M

7/21/2005 10:48 pm

You know Kinky, I am around now so if you are in the mood, holler.

da_hikr 47M

7/25/2005 3:26 pm


I agree, to have an expectation from another person and have them let you down is quite frustrating. The LEAST thing the guy could have done is met you...if sparks did NOT fly, or he was NOT interested in what was planned, then he should have just been direct and honest with you about it.

I wouldn't drop the ad just because of a few "bad apples." I admit, this site does make it easier to meet people, but it's still not perfect as well, so there is always the human flaw factor involved.

Anyhow, keep up the battle, it WILL pay off!

locorhin0 47

7/27/2005 6:33 am

How rude of him. Sorry sweety but Some men are ..Aholes... Keep your eye out there from what I can see there are close to 20k more men looking here in Mt then ladies for that 1-1,ect.. so you still have a long way to go....LOL .... Kinda wish you invited me....LOL

baddug3 51M
1 post
7/31/2005 10:26 am

Im in Blgs just a short drive with time to anticipate all the different positions we can get into. And that ass, dont worry i'll show and tear that up if thats your pleasure.

fuckwithnotrips 46M
3 posts
8/1/2005 3:27 pm

Without sounding like all of the over anxious guys that never get laid, I must say I am quite the same. Since I live on the beach it is easy to meet women. But it is not easy to meet someone like myself who just wants a fuck partner on call. Drop a mail sometime.

craig4302 50M
2 posts
3/27/2006 1:58 pm

toobad im in calif kinky id love fucking you n doing lots..

Become a member to create a blog