No Strings Attached? Yeah, right.  

KimberlyB101863 53F
30 posts
12/9/2005 9:23 pm

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No Strings Attached? Yeah, right.

OK, guys. Almost every one of you has this stated in your profile. Is that what you honestly want?

HotTXpussy4U 48F

12/9/2005 10:12 pm

My thought is.... screw it - - because I'm SURE that is all they want - - men run from responsibilty...or are cheating on their wives.

So that covers the single guys and the married guys.

I don't get it either - - maybe the girls are saying that too, but I don't check out those profiles.

No strings?? Then why bother. I'd rather use those strings to tie em up and have some fun.

rm_1955slowhand 61M
22 posts
12/9/2005 10:14 pm

well i for one am married, the sex is not that good and we are looking for more excitment. just hot kinky exicting sex, nothing more. having fun and not wanting to have worry about it getting to heavy. like we want to keep our marriage and not worry about someonr causing trouble with the wife. so descreet with no strings.

ChivasRegal 57M
69 posts
12/9/2005 10:40 pm

I know I do. I just wanna fuck, suck and be out before dawn..

AltumHunksUnite 53M

12/10/2005 5:16 am

No matter what anyone says, there are always strings. We're only human after all.

Let me drive. I like the view

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/10/2005 7:00 am

I like your attitude! I believe you have hit it on the nail! Thanks for the reply! Merry Christmas!

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/10/2005 7:01 am

That's the way I feel. I'm wayyyyyyy to independent for my own good!

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/10/2005 7:08 am

I absolutely agree. I personally don't believe you can have a passionate intimate experience without creating a few strings!

Thanks for the reply. Merry Christmas!

rm_luvyourazz 45M

12/10/2005 10:45 am

Kimberly....This is a tough statement to figure out..Had a long conversation with some women at a bar last night regarding this subject....You can meet someone for the first time, say at a bar,party,etc and be physically attracted and horny, possibly drunk and have some wham bam thank you maam sex and never see them again...But to have a ongoing sexual relationship regardless of situation you must have a connection(strings)...even great sex can only take you so far....NSA relationship basically means lets have sex when its convenient and never talk about our emotions!!!!
Sorry for the long message....Good luck in your search...LOL

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/10/2005 12:49 pm

I think you are absolutely right! Well, it's nice to get an honest guy's opinion!

Merry Christmas,


renomule69 58M
5 posts
12/10/2005 8:22 pm

Like the Sierra snowflakes, we are all different. Each and every one of us comes with a history. Many of us have had at least a couple of relationships gone bad. How that affects us-affects our future relationships. Most guys will be more than happy to help a woman [they find interesting,in some way]to fulfill their sexuall needs. Many folks are somewhat afraid of a serious relationship. BUT. If they find that special person who matches their wants and needs, they will allow themselves to be tied up with all kinds of strings. That's why we date, it's the hunt. [in the meantime,we need sex-like we need to eat]Soooo just maybe No Strings means that I don't think I'm ready to settle down,but if I find that very special lady, let's see what happens.Maybe it will happen when we're 90 years old and we need someone to set across the table and watch them wrinkle. I'm a hunter, I'll know what I want and need when I see it.

renomule69 58M
5 posts
12/10/2005 8:26 pm

I almost forgot. Merry Christmas,and welcome to MFEM. [mid Jan]

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/10/2005 9:06 pm

That makes sense. Interesting you call yourself a hunter. ;0)

Thanks and Merry Christmas!


Uncomplikated 52M

12/10/2005 9:44 pm

For me, there HAS to be some "strings'... such as an emotional attraction as well as a physical one. And for there to be an emotional attraction means I like her for more than just her body.
I won't have sex with a woman I am not attracted to emotioanlly as well as physically. No,.. I'm not saying I have to LOVE her,..but I do have to like her before I will lick her.
Besides, I find a direct correlation between the intensity of my mental orgasm and how much I like the woman I am with when I make her cum.
If I really like her, and make her cum with my tongue,...damn,...I get a headrush you wouldn't believe.

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/11/2005 7:44 am

I agree. The attraction is the initial string!

Merry Christmas,

renomule69 58M
5 posts
12/11/2005 11:17 am

They say a hunter goes deeper in the bush,always shoots twice,and eats what they shoot. I am a sportsman, who hunts,fishes,and enjoyes the outdoors,I'm also a conservationalist. In my life in sales you are also somewhat a hunter, and I guess you can say the dating scene is like hunting. Hunting for: a special person, a good time, some laughs, a nice dinner date, or maybe just sex. I'm not a P.C. person. I suppose the P.C. people would think that the term hunter carries a negative conintation. You can interchange hunter for [looking,seeking,checking it out,or whatever] I personally like hunter. you might think that it's exciting to know that there are some real men in the world that are hunting down the great partner, and will be man enough to capture their pray. Have a Happy New Year.

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/11/2005 1:08 pm

Well said. I never thought of it as a hunter though, but a Predator! LOL I've been married to a "hunter" before. Can't handle those dead birds on the wall! Or the deer heads! But, I would be impressed with a man who is a man in his own right. And if hunting is part of his life, then the acceptance is as a whole and part of who he is!

The new year will be awesome! Great things are happening!

gentelmanjim53 63M

12/11/2005 3:31 pm

Kimberly, your response to my blog was and is intriguing. Many who have resopnded to your blog have given you much insite as to the human condition. In any relationship there are strings of emotions that connect us or we would not connect at all. It is only my opinion but when someone says NSA in there profile they just mean they do not need that commitment or baggage of a full time realtionship.
As to your comments to my blog, thank you, I have always had a strong sexual drive and through the years have learned that if my partner is satisfied then my experience is complete and the longer it take to satisfy her the more I am satisfied. Merry Christmas to you.

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/12/2005 8:17 am

Thanks Jim. Merry Christmas to you too!

rm_cumsplurge 56M

12/19/2005 5:52 am

Kimberly,you are a great breathe of fresh air. Hope you find all you want in Love and Success in '06.

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/20/2005 2:21 pm

Thanks! Merry Christmas and good wishes for you too!


Truefriendnmore 47M

12/30/2005 12:21 am

no strings here! but who ever considered a freindship strings? Strings to me means forming a one on one relationship building into all that comes with it such as living together and such. As for someone saying guys run from responsability, there is a great deal of responsability in friendship if you are a truefriend. Not all guys are pigs, some just dont want the two story house, whit picket fence and kids. I for one had that for 13 years and enjoy my freedom to make friends without someone getting jealous.
Take care and Happy New Year,
I wish you well on finding the one you are looking for, but perhaps this site is not the right one for that. grin

KimberlyB101863 53F

12/30/2005 9:15 am

Thanks for your response. Well, since I am beyond the white picket fence thing with kids, I don't believe that was what I was referring to. I'm referring more to the emotional strings involved.

I also enjoy my freedom (extremely independent), without having to answer to anyone for it. I have had an overwhelming response to my profile, so what I'm looking for must be appealing to several on here. All these sites are essentially the same. This one is just very blatent about it. One benefit from being on here, I can tell exactly what the guy is looking for, without having to meet him on another dating site and being side swiped with it later. It gives me a chance to identify who I don't want to meet and those who I do want to meet.

And, as one guy stated in an email to me recently, it's not about the sex, it's about the thrill of the hunt.

Happy New Year!!!!

rm_domenec1 62M
4 posts
1/1/2006 10:14 pm

I am single, and have been for about 9 years now. The relationships that I have had, didn't like the fact that I live out in the boon-docks, and work 2nd shift. Or they wanted to change me into what they wanted. Or they wanted me to sell my 40 acres, and move to town. I will admit I enjoyed having sex anywhere around the property, some was very kinky.
It's really nice to just sit outside in in a chair and enjoy the peace and quiet, fresh air while sucking on a beer.

rm_domenec1 62M
4 posts
1/1/2006 10:31 pm

opps.......that really did not answer the question about " NO STRINGS "
so here goes. At one point in time,it was very easy to just go out for the sex, after all that is where the term came from " young, dumb, and full of cum !! " as the years go by, it is nice to have something to talk about. other then just " HI and BYE " besides I have to work at going to town.

hotrenonights 57M
1 post
1/2/2006 12:37 am

First of all, Happy New Year! As it relates to no strings attached, I view this as a vebal agreement that two (or more) people can get together and have an "out". Certainly there are those that can have hot sex, but would prefer to not commit to anything but passion. I for one prefer passion and laughter, but can do so with "no strings attached". Sure, maybe at some point there may be an attraction.

rm_brachta 46M

1/6/2006 2:05 pm

So many different views. There is really no such thing as "no strings", at least for someone like me. I may see someone attractive, decide to meet them, and once I get to know them, decide to have sex. Well, crud. Now I know them, and wouldn't hook up with someone I didn't like, if even just a little.

Hotrenonights has it right about having a verbal "out" when you say no strings. Most guys belive in the "contract" between adults, including the right to end things. Passion is its own critter- separate from love or friendship. Its great when they all happen at the same time, but both people need to be on the same page for that to work...

just my 2 bits worth...

rm_busheeter 53M

1/7/2006 4:19 am

No strings attached can have many different meanings, one being that in the early stages of dating you just want to get to know someone and your not ready to jump into anything right off the bat, this softens the fall for both parties, we have been programmed to believe the way something is written it can only mean one thing, we need to open our eyes and minds and expand on the true meaning of a statement, each of us can tell someone something different but we still see the same thing.

PurrsWaverAerie 68M

1/7/2006 4:58 am

"No strings" doesn't have to mean simply empty sex.. it suggests only that sexual sharing is a wonderful pleasure... and a necesary prelude to exploring more. If we are mature adults, and comfortable with initial attraction... it seems silly not to explore and enjoy our sexual chemistry as part of the process of moving toward more... including a long term relationship. The desire for more conceptually precedes the reality of it with a particular person...sharing on a sexual level either enhances the possibilities or not... it takes time... a sense of spontaneity and sexual compatibility can tell much. A sense of honesty and openess is the key.

pircedandsniped 44M
10 posts
1/22/2006 4:28 pm

If no strings attached, that means no spooning for either one. Some could so no kissing for example. Men are dogs, you feed a stray dog some food, and I guarntee it will come back for more.I myself find "friends with benefits" a more appropiate. No strings, does that mean that I cant dive in for round 2? Just remember " IT'S ALL GOOOD... we only live once, so live it..

rm_eagleray5 57M

2/14/2006 8:39 pm

Kim, this is Denver ..yes I know Denward, will, let him know next time I see him ..eagleray 5/ denver 2

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