Fantasies  

KentGent95 54M
20 posts
11/6/2005 4:32 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Fantasies


Reading some of the other Blogs and articles on AdultFriendFinder got me thinking about fantasies.

There are fantasies which I would love to make reality, and there are those which should perhaps remain just fantasies.

I have already made real a number of fantasies I used to have, for example:
* sex with a stranger
* a threesome with two women (wifey was one)
* being watched having sex
* mutual masturbation in a moving vehicle (too dangerous to repeat, that one!)

I am now having trouble deciding into which category my remaining fantasies fall.
* a threesome with another couple
* sex in a public place (a lift/elevator is perhaps the ultimate)
* being tied up and repeatedly used as a sex toy
* tying a woman up and teasing her to multiple orgasms
* etc.

Recommendations anyone?

ArmorMonadCharm 44F

11/6/2005 7:38 am

QUOTE FROM YOUR POST:
* being tied up and repeatedly used as a sex toy
* tying a woman up and teasing her to multiple orgasms

Well you also need to decide if your more toppy, a bottom or good at switching.

Some people have no problem letting the control go into the hands of another. While others don't want to let the control go, and must have that control in their hands at all times. Other people don't mind playing either role.

You must have have TOTAL TRUST with your partner if you allow them to tie you up. So they won't do anything you don't approve of while your in a restained state. Which would cause the loss of trust, and can cause more harm than good. It's also a good way to get hurt if you don't have the trust in your partner.

As there are many issues to talk about. Exactly what types of activities are allowed and not allowed while the person is in the restrained state.

Another alternative. Is to be restrained by words alone. Or use something breakable such as toilet paper or streamers to restrain your arms and feet. It's the act of tying up. You can feel the restraint in place. Yet it's fully breakable if needed.

Use a safe word. A word that is not normally used when in the scene. LOL "Peanut butter : red light : safe word : elephants", something like that. Because just "stop or no" might not have the same meaning when in a scene. You might be saying those words but not really want the scene to stop.

Never play under the effects of alcholol or drugs.

Play Safe
Play Sane
Play Consentual

*blush*


KentGent95 54M
13 posts
11/10/2005 11:10 pm

Gee, thanks for the advice, Blush. Nice to have the benefit of the voice of experience


voyeurs69in2003 68M/54F  
318 posts
1/6/2006 9:28 am

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voyeurs69in2003 68M/54F  
318 posts
1/6/2006 9:31 am

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