Just not getting enough  

KandyCoated4U 52F
1461 posts
6/15/2006 12:08 pm

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6/17/2006 1:50 pm

Just not getting enough


Ok the more profiles I read the more I wonder about married people.

They say " Im just not getting enough at home" Ok so maybe you married the wrong person. Why not fix the problem ?

Then some say "Im not looking to change my life". Hell yes you are you would not be here.Everyday our lives change. Look at the big picture.

Not looking for a fight, just wondering if some people think about these things.

! If I were a crayon, I'd most likely be jammed up some kids nose.


rm_jrdaddy101 61M

6/15/2006 1:13 pm

I believe every person has different circumstances. After my wife and I married she started to go through menopause has she tells me she has no desire to touch or be touched.
I still love everything else about her I just have physical neeeds that she doesn't share with me at this time.
If I'm wrong so be it.


rm_HDguy98 62M
403 posts
6/15/2006 2:09 pm

Kandy doesn't the saying "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" about sum's it up. Seems some people are never happy with what they have, they need varity it seems. But it does take all kinds to make the world go around.
So hang on for the ride LOL.....


IDsatisfaction 52M

6/15/2006 2:56 pm

The problem is that within the marriage structure, especially with kids, it's hard to get to the level of sexual relations that you can outside of it.

"No strings" sex counters the ropes that tie the married couple apart. The excitement of meeting just for sex adds to that.

However, for most (like me) it's hard to pull the trigger and even when you do apon meeting in person the results are dissapointing, if not never started.

You can't fix the problem by getting out of one if the next relationship carries the same ropes, and most are determined by ourselves so.... You have to step out.


initjust4fun5 53M

6/15/2006 5:29 pm

WTF does IDsatisfaction mean. Sounds like a bad episode of Fraizer. You don't sound intelligent, just the oposite.

Anyway, I was one of those "don't want to change". Was bored and curious. Now I have met someone and it's changed my whole world. We are just online friends for now but we both know were the future is going. So ya, you are right on. We both are committed to our kids and keeping a stable situation. So, it is a slow torture of knowing I have found my equal 800 miles away and it will be years before we can be together. Call it fate, call it stupidity but it is what it is. No turning back now. So, I'm with you. Word to the wise....


IDsatisfaction 52M

6/16/2006 3:37 am

init...yeah, right...Frazier AND non-intelligent...great comparison.

Truth is I done pretty much the same thing. Identified a couple women, but in the end didn't/haven't/won't get involved with them...same reasons as you.


initjust4fun5 53M

6/17/2006 9:16 am

Well I am involved. Pretty much know the future is with her. So I am now in an affair of sorts. Long distance e affair. We are both married with children. I never intended it to go this direction. Now I'm a liar to my wife. Don't get me wrong, I am thankful every day that I met my new friend. Going to quit this site though.


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