I got into a fight! My confession  

Kaliedascope61 41M
3157 posts
2/23/2006 6:51 pm

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I got into a fight! My confession

Found a soap box, and I’m on it!

I was reading blogs this afternoon and came across one that disturbed me on many levels. It was written by a young woman in Australia who wanted to lose her virginity, and was looking for a guy on AdultFriendFinder to do so.

Normally I would think, ya right spam, but after reading over the comment, and looking at her profile I felt this is probably a real person who made a mistake, and posted her feelings on that mistake.

I left a comment, and then got blasted for that comment by another blogger.

Ah but the American way prevails, and debate is a good thing sometimes, but at the same time you have to put yourself in a state of mind to take criticism when you allow people to post comments on your blog, good or bad, they have a right to voice there opinion. I like exercising that right, and do so often.

I am a hypocrite, but I’m not sure why? Maybe someone with a calmer demeanor can tell me so. That’s why I'm posting this at all. I'm kinda pissed how someone can take a 50 word comment that is in agreement with the original post and turn it into an essay about my opinion of women? That’s what I got out of it, what did you get out of it?

I admit, I can take things the wrong way, I admit I can fly of the handle and get angry quickly about things that don't really concern me. I admit I can be an asshole, and do so often. I admit that I put myself ahead of others on a lot of scales! I admit I am confident, and I admit I don't always play well with others.

Here it is

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Was I right? Or was I wrong?
And why would you encourage someone to do something that they are going to regret?

southrnpeach333 50F

2/23/2006 9:20 pm

Huh? To each his own I guess, but I see your point.

astralcurl 55M

2/23/2006 11:45 pm

I agree with what you said, but with all the emotions flying around, maybe it's best to not stir the fire. People have to live and learn for themselves.

champagnechaser 41F
1639 posts
2/23/2006 11:47 pm

Alright, i agree with you that it was not the brightest idea for this girl to seek out her cherry-popper on AdultFriendFinder. However, i think that she already realizes that and your comment of stating the obvious just rubbed it in. Additionally, i think the woman who went off on you took your comment about finding someone special to do it with as an insult. Why? Who knows. I think that you are right, but it was a bit insensitive.

I agree, you can't post a blog and not expect to hear something that may offend you or what not. This girl is obviously troubled. I don't get it either.


2/24/2006 7:41 am

I'm sorry, but she was not a virgin! No freakin way! She was just an attention seeker, who knows to attract men you have to have something that will catch their eye.And what better then to say your a virgin! Or some taboo shit!!! Freakin classic!

angelgrrl 48F

2/24/2006 8:51 am

I posted something I'm sure I'll regret, but the story given made NO sense. He had a partner and kids and roommates? It's possible, but somehow, I don't believe it. It really smacks of someone looking for attention.

Oh, as far as you go though, if someone puts it out there and a blog, you have a right to comment on it.

lust4u941 46F
33 posts
2/24/2006 9:42 am

I think you are giving it too much thought K, I mean who gives a rats ass what anyone thinks of your posts. Just as she made a statement and left herself open to whatever comments came in, when you post a comment or response you're asking for the same thing. You gotta put on a thick skin and not look back if you don't want to hear it.

kelly402005 52F

2/24/2006 11:59 am

I went and saw the whole damn thing!!!!.......
You win.........

(Pushing the virgin aside! Hugging you for your victory!)

I'm jealous that Mr. Trav comments on your site, not mine!! I've started posting on his a lot...... He was "my hero" yesterday, aaahhhh! ( only it sounds different coming from me!!! )
Come on Trav......
I may be gushy! But I'm honest! And a whiner!!!!LOL! Self made!!

SilkenKiera 37F  

2/24/2006 1:21 pm

You weren't wrong, you were concerned for her. I don't know a lot of people who say that their first experience was any good anyway. Personally, I don't even count my first boyfriend as being the person I lost my virginity to. We were both virgins, you can imagine what that was like, I'm not even sure you can technically call it sex! I feel bad that she was put in that scary situation, but people make their own choices.



2/24/2006 1:29 pm

I am back---- Im sorry, but in a matter of days, she is a virgin, she finds a man, she gets laid, is expected to do it to his friends, is afraid,comes on to blog about it, then is too upset and has some chick speaking for her? don't beat yourself up about it! Probably a man, faking to be a virgin!

LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
2/24/2006 2:54 pm


"I don't mean to be an ass or anything, but don't you think that coming to a site like this to lose your virginity was a moronic idea in the first place?

I knew there was something I liked about you Kalied...it's that ability for stating the obvious coming out of you.

I don't know if I agree or not with what you said to the poor girl...I'm still laughing too hard to care.


Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
2/27/2006 11:41 am

    Quoting southrnpeach333:
    Huh? To each his own I guess, but I see your point.
to everyone who responded to this.

Thank you for your comments, I apprecitated them all. And agree with some and disagree with others, but thats the beauty of it!

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