Unwantable Fantasies  

KMA5 40M
383 posts
1/26/2006 4:50 pm

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3/6/2006 6:47 am

Unwantable Fantasies

Has anyone here ever thought of practicing polygyny?
Having more than one spouse could solve many problems emotionally and sexually. It still leads me to think... would we still be unhappy with our spouses-es and look for whatever we need outside our lives. I also believe in the prospect of soulmates. If there is only one, would you tell the other spouse if you eventually found them. I guess some people just can't be satisfied.
On a positive note, there is always love to be shared when someone says something "doghouse" worthy". There is always someone to warmly greet you when you have had a bad day.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
2/5/2006 5:18 am

I'm going to be writing a blog soon about polyandry. Though i said that to myself last month. I'm waiting for inspiration + to find all my books of research (the most important one came up missing).

But Islam allows men to have up to 4 wives. I know other cultures/religions do. It's not so uncommon. The *uncommon* is a woman having more than 1 husband. Roughly 1% of the world's population. (and unfairly enough: they tend to only be the poorest of societies that do. ie: a man on his own cannot afford a wife, so has to share the responsibility).

Though speaking of multiple wives... by what i've heard men are more miserable than if they have a single one. Because usually the women are jealous of the man's attention, and if one wife seems to get any preferential treatment over others, all the rest are PO'd. My roommate knew somebody who's dad had more than one wife... said they ran him into the poor house. Though I also read some native american traditions where men had multiple wives... sometimes they come to be like sisters and would never wish to change the status quo.

Speaking of becoming close: when you have multiple women living together...one tends to be more "dominant"... eventually (and it doesn't take THAT long) all their periods will synchronise themselves with eachother. Next thing you know: PMS city.

I worked with somebody once and we discovered we had that problem. 3 weeks a month we got along great; 1 week a month we were literally at eachother's throats.

All that being said... I have 4 husbands (OK: cyber-husbands. who all know about eachother and have agreed to this situation. And I've run into a surprising number of men who've said, "Were it not against my religion, I wouldn't mind if my wife wanted multiple husbands".

KMA5 40M
771 posts
2/6/2006 6:32 am

Thanks, Tips That was the response I was looking for. I left this post in an ambigous state hoping for more than just the male perspective. I suppose depending on the lady in question, I wouldn't mind being #6 or something-- but there has to be a group night at least once a month to shake the nympho out of her

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
2/6/2006 12:59 pm

group night??? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........

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