All right boys and girls  

KDR305 46M/46F
247 posts
12/29/2005 7:34 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

All right boys and girls

I know I'm probably preaching to the choir here, but what is the big deal about sex?


If a woman looks at another woman and it stirs something inside of her, should she be afraid of that feeling?

If a man wakes in the middle of the night with an erection, only to remember that he was just dreaming about his best friend giving him head; why does he feel shame?

Doesn't sex feel good? Isn't sex the basest expression of affection and endearment?

Aren't the terms "straight", "Gay" and "Bi" just convenient labels?

I think we're all just bisexual. Most of us are just too scared to fess up.

The comedian Ron White summed this thought up pretty well :

"Do you like porn?"

"Yeah, man. You know I do." Says his friend.

"When you're watching porn, do you prefer for the guy to have a small, flacid penis?"

"NO WAY! I want to see a BIG, HARD cock ......"

The friend trails off.

The great thing about this joke is that most guys will laugh at it, but not realize why it's funny.

My realization came about over the course of a few years. As time went by and my reliance on porn grew, I noticed something.

My favorite porn stars were the ones who looked the most like my wife. And my favorite scenes were those in which she was with multiple partners, preferably looking at the camera and talking a lot.

As long as the wife-looking girl was having a good time, it got me off.

And then I noticed something else. I REALLY like watching those same starlets one-on-one with a guy.

As long as he's good looking and has a big dick.

Does that make me Gay? I think not.

I am not Lexington Steele or Peter North, any more than she is Jewel D'nyle or Nikita Denise.

Yet I'm still having difficulty selling her on this whole AdultFriendFinder thing. She's scared of the internet. Can't say I blame her.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts.

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
12/29/2005 9:28 pm

I think the "bisexual" label is misused. Just because you enjoy looking at men while they fuck women/men doesn't mean you're acting on that sexuality. I have had sex with men but I'll never call myself bisexual since I don't like to kiss men....

BTW your blog is interesting and I would like to see more....

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