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JustaGuy40-1 55M
31 posts
4/12/2006 4:07 am

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back again

have you ever been walking around watching people, say at the Mall or local Wal-Mart and seen someone that you think is hot( man or woman, whatever your preference. Personally I like women) and think to yourself " I wonder how it fits " or something along that line, smile and keep moving. Creating your own little fantasy of all the wonderful things you and they could be enjoying at that moment.
I do that alot, but then I get to thinking about it from the otherside. Like would they see me the same way, or what on their mind, or even if they have a significant other that they are totally commited to. I think it's my guilt for seeing this person only as a object to have sex with. I must be really messed up to have guilt over something that is only a fantasy, and doesn't hurt anybody, except me.
also has your Idea of what your looking for in a partner changed with age? I know mine has. I've noticed that The body type is roughly the same, just the age is moving up. Like I said a friend of mine who has a much younger girl friend( and yes I'm jealous, She's Really Really HOT ) "What do you talk about after sex, Barbie"! I even ask him one day to give his girl friend something for me. When he asked what, I unzipped my fly! I'm glad he's a good friend, cause he just laughed.
Time for work, Again have a wonderful day!

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

4/12/2006 5:36 am

"Mr. Bambi" here...

Yes, I've had those thoughts too. And have you noticed how your fantasies change from person to person? Some women you would want to ride rough, some you just want to ear, and others seem to be built for snuggling? As for the guilt aspect, I don't have any guilt unless I dwell on the fantasy. If it is an "innocent" and fleeting thought, I don't worry about it.

As I get older, I have found that I definetely prefer women my own age. Heck, I'm even into the sag in their breasts (I find it extremely sexy now). This might not be the norm - but you asked!

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sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
4/12/2006 7:16 am

Oh yes I do fantasize and sometimes I stop at some aisle and smile like a fool because of the fantasy

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