Things I'm looking for...  

JustKeiChan 45F
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9/21/2005 11:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Things I'm looking for...

Since this seems to be a common question, I thought that I'd write a blog to try to put an answer down.

Well, I'm looking for more then a "one night stand".

I guess you could say that I'm looking for a "friends w/benifits" if you're looking for a "label" on what I'm looking for.

When I say a friends w/ benifits, I mean someone with whom you have a genuine care and concern for. That you are able to talk about more then just sex.

People have asked me if I'm looking for in a guy, well I'm not really sure...It's not like I have a shoping list of items I'm looking for in a person.

I guess bottom line, there has to be a spark, a connection if you will. Most times one is able to figure out if they have a spark just from chattig on the phone or even a short meeting in person.

I guess people try to make the act of sex into purely mechanical act. That doesn't work for me. There has to first be a connection. I have to be "stimulated" mentally, meaning just by talking about different topics...etc. I find brains sexy. Also, genuine care and concern. I'm not looking for the love of all loves. I'm not looking for a Father for my 2 boys. I think meet up, see if you click. If so, then frineds and who knows maybe more. Let things go with the flow and see where they take me. Bottom line, we can never have too many good friends.

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