Juliet610 51F
802 posts
7/11/2006 5:23 pm

Last Read:
7/19/2006 2:44 pm


As many of you have said, you were directed here by Fantasylover. He is a Prince to do that for our Julie, and we greatly appreciate it.

However, the link that he included was incorrect and led to a post entitled Anybody Wanna Fuck. (I'm doing this from memory, so I hope I have the title correct.) When he realized the error, he quickly posted an apology and redirection to the correct post. However, I simply HAVE to share Julie's reaction when I read it all to her.

As I read the post asking for support for Julz, she got a bit emotional, and was on the verge of tears. I gave her hand a squeeze and went onto the next post explaining the error, and she absolutely ROARED with laughter! She laughed so hard the nurse poked her head in the room and asked if everything was alright. Julz was still laughing too hard to speak so she just pointed to me, indicating I was supposed to explain the situation.

Once Julie's laughter subsided enough for her to catch her breath, she said, and I quote, "I would dearly love to have the desire to fuck, but right now, that's the last thing on my mind! But I'll be sure to let you know when that changes." That sent her--and me--into fits of giggles again, and gave us something to chuckle about all afternoon. Thank you, Fantasy, for drawing the laughter out of Julz, even inadvertantly. I didn't realize it until today, but I hadn't heard her laugh in much too long.

Today is obviously a better day. Her temp is normal, and they've taken another 3 liters of fluid off, so she's MUCH more comfortable. They're going to watch her tonight to make sure everything is stable, and if she has a good night, she'll go home tomorrow. Keep the thoughts and prayers coming.

Jason from the Bench

P.S. This again is Julie's choice of a photograph--she says it's one of her favorites because of the memories it evokes. My turn to blush.

VATraveler1948 68M

7/11/2006 6:25 pm

Thanks Jason. That's a hoot about the bad link, I'm glad that Julie got a big kick out of it. Laughter is, as it is said, the best medicine. Still in my prayres!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
7/11/2006 6:34 pm

just a simple hug and a prayer to you both,you can fight this bastard i know you can,my aunt has it too and on her 6th cemo,its made her sick as a dog but like you fighting with all that she has inher,my mom says she looks great

she found the first 4 therpys the worse to cope with,plus cancer of the breast to fight too,but she is doing al she can to keep bright as a button and even found time for a small holiday

Positive fighting thoughts and prayers coming your way,hugs

I'm a

i'm here to stay

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
7/11/2006 6:34 pm

Thankyou Jason for letting us know

I'm a

i'm here to stay

ella1966 50F
1528 posts
7/11/2006 6:51 pm

Wow, Jason, this princess has more courage in her little finger than I have in my entire body...she deserves some happiness and life. I ready parts of her blog and will pray for a speedy recovery. She is an inspiration as well as being incredibly beautiful. God Bless you both, ella X

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
7/11/2006 7:50 pm

I got quite a chuckle out of Fantasy's mistake too.....especially since knowing him the little bit I do....I knew he would be mortified! But I also thought that Julie would find it amusing....and I'm glad she did. Hang in there sweetie......you are getting closer all the time to wellness! I'm praying everyday.

rm_putt675 50M
1118 posts
7/11/2006 7:53 pm

Please pass along to Julz my absolute best wishes and prayers for a full and speedy recovery.
Hugs to you both and every ounce of strength I can channel from Minnesota.

chef953 63M

7/11/2006 8:52 pm

There really are many opportunities to laugh, draw close and enjoy each other in all situations. Glad to know improvements in Julies comfort today!!! Prayers keep going up friends.

drmama69 57F

7/11/2006 11:22 pm

Glad to hear you have some laughter in the midst of the trials...Julie is in my thoughts and prayers...thanks for the update!

2943 posts
7/11/2006 11:36 pm

We're praying and pulling for you Julie...
glad you two got a good laugh...what good timing that was!..lol
Hang in there and be strong...thanks Jason for letting us know...



fantasylover_05 62M

7/12/2006 4:32 am

Julie and Jason

I truly truly am sooooo glad you both got a laugh out of my faux paux!!! (that is french for FUCK UP!! LO

When I saw what I had done I was truly MORTIFIED and felt TERRIBLE... I felt it made a complete mockery of my attempts to help!

I do care very very deeply about you Julie... and have come to care about you as well Jason

Jason... I PROMISE to behave and ONLY hold her hand!

Julie... when you are feeling particularly down.... close your eyes and picture me there beside you holding your hand while Jason is on the other side holding your other hand... feel the strength of our love for you coursing through your body.... seeking out the disease and fighting the battle for you... use OUR strength as your own!!

You both are in my thoughts and prayers!!

I send you BOTH all the strength I can possibly muster!!

Hang in there my dear FRIENDS!!!

sexyariesgirl 57F

7/12/2006 4:39 am

So glad to hear of the improvement...still sending many good thoughts and prayers your way! Thank you so much, Jason, for updating us all. HUGGS.....

Power To FOK

MillsShipsGayly 51M

7/12/2006 9:17 am

I have visited Julie's blog off and on since she started and I do wishe her well in her treatments.

Very nice of you to share with everyone and I wish I woould have been the one to have made the faux pas ... that made me laugh out loud also ... great to hear that it made her laugh too!

Wish her well ..... and good luck

marriednhor002 49M/41F

7/13/2006 8:53 am

i too am a new visitor due to "notice"from another blog,from all the entries it seems you are great,courageous people with beautiful souls...
chins up,positive thoughts and know that you've touched many hearts with your touching battles....
will say a prayer for you both and best wishes comin' at ya!

Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
7/13/2006 9:43 pm

Just wanted to let you all know that when you get the chance to read that it's your turn over at my blog:

There's Just Something About Getting Things Off My Ass, Mary (Part I

I think it's up your alley!

Conserve Water and Prevent Global Warming: Shower With A MILF!

meerkittykat 42F

7/16/2006 9:32 am

Hi there Jason....

I showed up via the post link...a little late actually, and while it didn't send me any place unexpected, it did kick me right off the site....ole fantasy was at least well intentioned.

Never visited before, so I won't pretend to know your and yours, but hope and good wishes are universal, and I'm sending positive thoughts to Juliet and wishes for a recovery with many full years ahead.


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