Half way there  

Juliet610 51F
802 posts
7/5/2006 5:33 pm

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7/11/2006 8:37 pm

Half way there

Hi all. Julz had her fourth (of eight) chemo treatment today, but just barely. They always have to draw her blood before hand, to make sure she is healthy enough to withstand the treatment, and today she just squeaked through. She's fighting with everything she has, but this "strain" is a real rascal and seems to know to fight almost as well. Julie's spirits are still good, or at least they were until it was suggested she spend the night in the hospital. She politely, but emphatically, declined, saying she had the best care right here, holding her hand. She was referring to me, but the truth be told, she's very easy to care for. If I have any questions, I just call her sister Jacqueline (a nurse) and she walks me through my latest concern. Always good to have experts in various fields in the family!

While waiting around today between having the blood drawn, seeing her oncologist, and getting the actual treatment, we had a lot of time to talk, and even check in online to see how all our AdultFriendFinder friends are doing. We read quite a few Blogs, and wanted to comment, but the number you have to enter in the box to prevent spam was not showing up! Sure, the box was there, but no three digit number to enter in it. So for those of you whose Blogs we visited, we tried to leave a comment, but were unable to do so. We wondered if this was a new “rule” which allows only Gold or Silver members the privilege of commenting on other’s Blogs. If so, none of you will hear from Julz again, because she refuses to upgrade her membership because of me. WOW–I feel so lucky to have this beautiful lady in my life! And to know she’s no longer looking for Mr. Right–not that she ever really was–again, WOW!

I need to get back to my favorite girl now, so I’ll cut this short. Keep holding the good thoughts for Julie–she still needs them.

Until next time,

Jason from the Bench

P.S. Julie suggested I post some pictures of me in some of my hobbies. Here's one of my favorite things to do.


fantasylover_05 62M

7/6/2006 5:03 am

Thank you for the update Jason!!

Hang in the Julz!!!

I am sooo glad she has you to help her through this her lastest hardship in life Jason!! You are indeed "Mr. RIGHT" for her!!!

If I could I would be there for her holding her hand as you do... but I will have to settle for being there in spirit....

ps... cool hobby!!!

pss.... as far as I know it does not require a gold or silver ball to comment.... so must have been a system glitch... and further more... you/she need not respond... we know.... we only care about the both of you and want her to GET BETTER!!!


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
7/6/2006 6:09 am

Jason...thanks for the update! And Julz....you know I'm there in spirit holding on tight to you. I've been where you are, and I understand what you are going through. We are all thankful for Jason being there with you. About the 3 numbers.....for some reason, I've had problems with them lately too....and I'm a gold member at the moment. The only thing that works is just to hit the post button anyways, and then it comes up with a new screen and 3 new numbers for confirmation. But we don't mind that you don't comment! Just place your energy into getting well.


warmandsexy52 64M
13164 posts
7/8/2006 2:45 am

Send Julz my thoughts and prayers. That an English blogger read about her plight and wants to reach out and support.

warm xx


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
7/9/2006 1:23 am


keeping you in me thoughtz....

~ warm hugz ~


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
7/11/2006 6:51 pm

If you are still having comment troubles with the 3 digit number not showing up, log on to passion instead of AdultFriendFinder. For some reason the numbers block on one and not the other.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


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