Why Bother  

JuicyBBW1001 54F
2166 posts
8/17/2006 8:27 am

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8/18/2006 7:33 pm

Why Bother

You know I was looking at my winks today and my hotlist. And I have to ask Why bother?? I mean if your gonna wink and add someone to your hotlist then why not email them instead??? C'mon I know some of you are shy but pleaseeeeeeee if your gonna wink and add someone to your hotlist why not comment on their blog or send them an email.


GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
8/17/2006 2:27 pm

As a standard member I cannot initiate an email with anyone currently - so winks are the way to let someone know I was interested. I'd add someone to my hotlist only as sort of a "personal bookmark" so I'd know to look for that profile again - if and when I could ever email.

I know that once you get a certain amount of profile activity - people checking out your profile - then you get the priviledge of 10 emails a day as a standard member. Usually that priviledge is left to the women - as they get at least 10 times the profile traffic as the men.

I comment on people's blog in response to their posting - not to neccessarily let them know I would like to hook up with them. (However, when I come to Tampa - I'm posting a reply to a message on your blog...lmao )

So, to answer the "why bother" - das why - cuz I can't do anything else at this point basically...

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 8/17/2006 3:34 pm:
I will be watching for it too

IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/18/2006 12:38 am

yea, what's wrong with you people...geeeesh!

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 8/18/2006 5:38 am:
Since I don't know you and I do appreciate your advice on a previous post I am gonna let this comment slide, however if this was meant as the slam that I took for then please keep your opinions to yourself.

rm_sexxikritter 52F
2715 posts
8/18/2006 6:20 pm

I get a fair share of winks and I've only gotten two emails from any of them. I don't get it either.

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 8/18/2006 7:14 pm:
I guess they can't type but only click. (sigh) And the ones that can only know one line emails. (double sigh)

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