On Being a Diva or A Goddess  

JuicyBBW1001 54F
2166 posts
6/25/2006 1:34 pm

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On Being a Diva or A Goddess

I have been googling again. Earlier today I posted a entry about how I noticed that I was getting more winks now that I posted my boobs as my main photo again as opposed to just my eyes. My pal a beautiful woman in my estimation SexySensualSane replied and said that most men are visual creatures and that is true I suppose. But being a BBW has given me the slight disadvantage because most men even if they are looking for a woman of substance as Sexy put it seem to pass me by.
Now I know I am far from perfect in a lot of ways and being on this site and writing my blog has brought some amazing revelations to me. One of which is I have to stop thinking that because I am a big woman doesn't mean that I can't ever be a diva or a goddess. Being a diva or a goddess is an expression of the goal of most women even women of size. Because it is not just about sex nor is it about perfection but it is a transformation of the self through awareness and learning. It's about meaning and being real. It's also about being true to oneself and having faith that is fueled with loving kindness.
I have to start from this day forward thinking that I am worthy of the kind of love and affection that I desire. For I am a diva and or goddess in the making even though I don't fit the ideal of physical beauty I am still a true beauty in my own right.

Thanks Sexy for pointing that out to me.


2375 posts
6/25/2006 2:55 pm

We all come in different shapes, sizes, colors, textures, etc. I glory in the differences! You are a goddess so accept the love and affection that is your due. If we could all accept the physical and rise to a higher plane, the world would be so much better. You go girl!You aren't a woman of size, you are a woman of love.

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/25/2006 3:32 pm:
Aww thanks

8321 posts
6/25/2006 2:58 pm

There are guys who only go for BBW, so I don't think you'll be wanting for attention on this site.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/25/2006 3:32 pm:
It's not attention that I seek it is more about acceptance then anything.


6/25/2006 4:21 pm

Girl. you hold your head up high, strut your stuff and remember that you are all that and more!!! I'm a BBW too and I think I'm a diva, a goddess and sometimes even a princess I'm not everybody's ideal, but I don't have to be. I'm happy with who I am. You don't have to be a size 4 to be an amazing, beautiful woman.

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/25/2006 4:30 pm:

VCF1962 105F

6/25/2006 4:22 pm

Juicy - self acceptance is the one thing that gives you confidence. Men find that sexy and that too is a state of mind.

I've found this lately - I'm happy with who I am - sure I would love to be a few pounds lighter but I've tortured myself for so many years doing that and now that I've stopped and sat back, things seem to have fallen into place.

I met a lovely guy from here a couple of weeks ago and thank God, he loves boobs ! A boob man - he's in 7th heaven as much as I am cause if there's one thing I CAN do well, it's cleavage !!

Be you, be confident with who YOU are and you'll win the day !

Good luck to you !

Mistress Innuendo
Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/26/2006 12:16 pm:
Thanks and good luck to you too

ilsuconu 56M

6/25/2006 4:30 pm

For me, it's never been the fancy wrapping that makes the present perfect. Ribbons, bows, and paper get tossed aside, but the gift inside is kept and enjoyed.

Oh! That is a boob shot! It was the classy color that caught my eye!

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/25/2006 4:43 pm:
Sure it was and always a pleasure to see you.

PassionKisses4Me 44F

6/25/2006 6:12 pm

Inner beauty always shines brighter sweetie...but I as a larger woman understand exactly how you feel...If we love ourselves first, others will too...at least the right ones...so work it Goddess...work it hehe

Great post



amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
6/25/2006 6:25 pm

Great post. We are all beautiful and worthy of acceptance and love.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/26/2006 12:11 pm:

MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
6/25/2006 9:08 pm

Juicy, at 5foot7in tall and weighing in at 230lbs with 44dds and long dark hair and snappy dark eyes...i am a goddess *giggles* But its the quick wit and intelligence that has made me a Diva...and did i mention the humble nature? *ROTFLMAO* Everyone has beauty and by that same token there is ugly in us all as well. What makes truest statements of ones beauty goes much deeper thatn apearances...You show your georgeous in being so kind and loving in the face of some other peoples ignorance to the fact that we all have emotions. For what it's worth i think you're sexy and am a little sorry that ya don't like gals as well as the guys. *laughs and winks*

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/26/2006 12:12 pm:
Thanks and lol

Eddie5011 42M

6/26/2006 2:23 am

Hi, just reading your blogs. I find them all very interesting and I for one like the photo of your very fine chest. Sadly as a standard member I cannot access your other photos. Do you fancy a chat by e-mail, and we can exchange some photos????
Read my bio and get back to me. My blogs are gettin kind of lonely as nobody wants to chat to me. Iam fun honest.

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/26/2006 12:13 pm:
Thanks and I don't chat often anymore but feel free to visit me on my blog

Eddie5011 42M

6/26/2006 2:33 am

Reading your comments about fitting the physical side of things, I think the photo of you in the red underwear makes you look fit. That is you in that shot I take it? You look lovely and slim and if the chest amtches then you've got it made.X

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/26/2006 12:14 pm:
Sorry Eddie I don't have any red underwear in my pics on here. Must be someone else.

BowelLikesSaint 56M
142 posts
6/26/2006 1:49 pm

Juicy... You are a wonderful lady. Yes, the pic is very nice and the color is very appealing. I can see why you've got the winks. You are right, you can be a Diva and/or Goddess and you are beautiful too! I enjoy your blog and I love the things I have gotten to know about you. That is what makes you so beautiful!

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/26/2006 2:35 pm:
aww I am gonna blush now thanks

rm_1SweetBitch 55F
8575 posts
6/26/2006 9:57 pm

I have known you for quit some time on AdultFriendFinder and I think you are a beautiful person and you are very worthy of the best.

No Day Is So Bad It Can't Be Fixed With Great Sex!

1 SweetBitch

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/27/2006 2:51 am:
Well thank you wanna be my new pimp??

SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
6/28/2006 2:20 pm

SSS is pretty swell, isn’t she? For some reason we are so quick to focus on our flaws rather than zero in on our strengths. I think your post raises some excellent points, Juice. I particularly like “I have to start from this day forward thinking that I am worthy of the kind of love and affection that I desire.” That is important for all of us to remember.

You just reminded me of something a male friend used to always say to me and some other girlfriends---"Attitude, it's all about attitude!"

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 6/28/2006 5:45 pm:
I agree and I have been needing an attitude adjustment for a while I suppose.

TurnLock 59M
577 posts
7/3/2006 8:04 pm

It's all about maturity, the men who don't appreciate you for your size just don't have it. When I was young, all I wanted was the tall thin women. Now that I'm older, I still want them, but I've come to appreciate a full size woman. That is a powerful form, reeking of sexuality, moreso than the smaller woman. A nice looking BBW gets my motor running and always starts a hard one. Strut your stuff, as they mature, they'll find out what you have to offer and the rest of us grown A men already know.

JuicyBBW1001 replies on 7/3/2006 8:20 pm:
so are you sayin your motor runs for moi???? hmmmm interesting.

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