When Have You Crossed THAT Line?  

Jugz6969 38F
9 posts
1/8/2006 8:16 pm

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When Have You Crossed THAT Line?

It really is a shame that such a fine set of tits and a wet pussy are being wasted this evening. Called my husband at work to see if we could get some action going on when he gets home. He said it depends on how he feels when he gets home. Which 99% of the time is too tired to fuck worth a damn. Is it asking so much for your husband to just hammer his cock into you til you cum all over it? Hell, I can get off just giving a BJ, I could go that route too. But, he is always so tired. I'd worry about if he's cheating on me, but he doesn't have time to. And that makes me feel guilty for watching guys jerk off all night while i play with my unused goods.

Mr. X had to work tonight too, otherwise I'd of watch him work his cock for me. Met up with a guy from AdultFriendFinder I used to talk to before I got married. I can see he hasn't changed much, and eh. C'est la vie.

So I posted a question in the advice polls tonight. Mr. X has been talking about cumming over and whipping his cock out and jerking off for me. So at what point do I cross the "cheating" threshold? Can we mutually masturbate and it still not be cheating? What about him cumming on my tits? That would be hot, but I'm inclined to think that WOULD be cheating, even if I never touched his cock (and I don't know if I could restrain myself)?

rm_erosD3 53M

1/8/2006 8:45 pm

well girl, call each other by phone and mutually enjoy the sexual pleasure. Listen to each others excited moans as you reach down and touch your hot wet creamy button while he strokes his hard hot tool

Jugz6969 38F

1/8/2006 8:50 pm

Just a side comment, my husband and I have an understanding. As long as things stay online, we consider online masturbation just another form of porn. We watch porn together, we watch it seperately. Do I know that my husband jerks off without me? Yes. Does he know I masturbate without him? Yes. Sometimes he'll come home and say "I know what you did today" and tease me about it if he sees I had a toy out. Sex is discussed freely and openly in our home (we have no children). He knows that I'm not getting enough right now, and he doesn't discourage, or even bat an eyelash, about me masturbating online- he knows I love him, and I know he loves me. I think a lot about what it would be like to be with Mr. X or whatever other random guy I might talk to. Would I actually go out and do it? More than likely not. Its no worse than imagining myself as the star of a porno I watch. Not because I like the particual men who are in it, just because I like to think about having that experience. And if that makes me a bad person, well then, honey- you're on the wrong website.

tjinsoutheastpa1 53M
499 posts
1/9/2006 6:00 pm

I'm married and have had similar feelings. How far is to far? I can tell you that i've gon further than mutual masturbation, but not all the way. You sound very sexy. I'd love to chat with you sometime.

rm_erosD3 53M

1/10/2006 2:36 am

I like your way of thinking on this issue of self indulgence. Just reading your reply gets my blood pumping.

flirting4fun12 50F
13 posts
2/20/2006 12:59 pm

I can when I was married and before my husband and I decided to venture into the swingers lifestyle. We went camping with some friends from the internet, I think my husband gave them the impression we were going to swap...so when asked who wants to go on a beer run, when her husband asked me to go, I didnt see anything wrong....he made a pass at me and tried kissing me. I went back told my husband and he flipped out. and in the course of him calling me a cheater, he confessed that he had jacked off in front of the lady that lived across the street from us.
I guess it all depends on the agreement and rules you and your husband have established. For me I told my husband I dont care what he does, it is only sex, he loved me and I thought his love,trust and loyaltywere to me....till our swinger lifestlye was only what he wanted when he wanted it....I ventured out on my own....no longer married but I am having a lot more fun.

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