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Newbie Profile Problems
Newbie Profile Problems
So yeah, I'm new here at AdultFriendFinder. Learning the ropes takes a while, and as with anything, making a few mistakes here and there are par for the course.
I have learned a big lesson. Do not change your profile when you are in the mood and have the time to play on AdultFriendFinder. Once you change your profile it goes into limbo until the profile is approved by an AdultFriendFinder employee or robot, (I'm not sure if it's done by hand or a program).
This is the scenario: Let's say I'm a paying member of AdultFriendFinder. This weekend I'd like to hook up with 3 -5 men that would take turns feeding me cock and cum until I'm a worn out, slimed out mess. Sounds like fun. My profile does not reflect this desire right now, so since I have a few hours to surf, I decide to update my profile reflecting this sudden desire to be a little Asian bukkake whore.
I update my profile explaining exactly what I desire because I'm moody, and from one minute to the next I may change my mood. Then as soon as I submit this new profile - WHAM - I cannot email anyone, nor can they view my profile for anywhere from 2 hours to 48 hours. Weekend is over, no fun, and I'm wondering what the hell I just did to myself, and what am I'm paying for?
So far from my experience I believe that nearly half of all the female profiles are a fake, and if AdultFriendFinder did not approve the profiles, everyone would be posting their dot com (I would probably do this one myself if I could), personal email address, and fake scanned pics from Playboy. The folk at AdultFriendFinder are actually providing us a secure place to meet and greet in the best of their ability. So with that in mind I understand. I just wish there was a warning on the profile page stating the delay before I click submit. This would at least protect my good time, and give me a better perceived quality of my membership.
So the simple fix is to always change your profile at the end of your surf time. If you are done for the night, that is the best time to make a change, as with any luck it will be all working again when you decide to log back in. The only difficulty is if you are like me, and tend to one day feel rather mundane, then another day want some kind of wild anal gang bang, you have to prepare in advance. Not so good for spontaneity, but it's all in the name of a secure site.
The AdultFriendFinder site is huge, and there is a lot to learn in how to utilize it for what it's best for. Hope this helps at least one of you newbies out there before your weekend comes and goes.