JasonFlirting 43M
21 posts
6/9/2005 2:50 pm

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My wife has been planning to get a tattoo for about a year now. She's holding off, mainly because I haven't been too supportive of it. I really didn't understand why she wanted one.

But now I think I start to understand and I want one myself. I just don't know what to get... It is permanent, and life is a journey - I don't want any anchors.

Any more anchors I should say...although I love them dearly, sometimes I dream of the hedonistic life of debauchery I would live if I had stayed single and never had kids - probably would have caught something in an asian whorehouse, been shot while badly cheating at poker, or had a heart attack sitting at a computer playing games and eating pizza! (Yes, I really am that much of a geek - it could have been my fate)

So really, I'm wondering what I should get? I was thinking an arrow pointing at my penis with the words "Mouth goes here" above it. To subtle? I think that would hold me through life, but it may be a little vulgar... And what do I tell the kids if the see it while we are at the pool showering? "Daddy's a nympomaniac who loves oral sex"?

Yes, maybe that isn't the best choice...

What about a piercing? They aren't necessarily permanent, so if I don't like it then I can pull it out and let it grow over. I know my wife is totally against a prince albert or anything like that, and when my brother got his nipples pierced she acted like it was hideously digusting...maybe big pirate hoops? But with my shaved head, will people call me Mr. Clean? (I would!)

Anyone have any suggestions?

I'll have to give it some more thought, and if I do get it done, I'll post pictures of whatever I do.

rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
6/9/2005 3:31 pm

If you need suggestions as to what tattoo to get, I suggest you don't get a tattoo

JasonFlirting 43M

6/9/2005 7:17 pm

Thanks - that is a good point. I think I was looking for responses that would lead me to what women find sexy, but when I think about that, I realized that every woman will have different opinions, and trying to generalize about women and their reactions is foolish when it is something that affects me. (Of course, generalizations and prejudice are bad in general...)

Since there is nothing that screams to me, "Put me on your body until you die!" I don't think I will. I think I'll get my ears pierced, wear some big hoops and white t-shirts, and practice winking. Might need to buff up a bit, but Mr. Clean looks like he does pretty well with the ladies! They are always grabbing him by the handle. (Guys do too, which may be OK...I'm not suggesting that cleaning is a task relegated to women, at least in my house it isn't!)

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