How to Get a Man You Really Like  

JasminSassyGirl 33F
6 posts
6/12/2005 1:51 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

How to Get a Man You Really Like

People in general want what they can't have rather than what is easy for them to get. Have you ever noticed that men are more attracted to elusive, hard-to-get women, than those who shower them with eagerness and availability? You will find that time and time again, men go out with women who aren't easily open to them and who preserve an air of mystique.

What men really want is a woman who stimulates their romantic and sexual imagination. This type of woman knows how to assert herself; is not a pushover and still knows how to make a man laugh and treats him with respect. Most importantly, she has an element of mystery about her, and that is why men want to pursue her. She has high self-esteem and is not afraid of the risk involved in flirting. She is hard to get without being unattainable.


If you really like someone, don't shower him with too much affection. Use moderation. Find a way to exhibit your self-esteem, make them laugh, and never seem as if you need them. You need to become a challenge to them, not a pushover. Men love women that they can pursue.

One quick way to improve your self-esteem is to always look your best. If you can't afford to buy new clothes, then at least do your best to keep in shape and well groomed. Remember that life isn't fair. While you may not see it as a priority, other girls are out there buying a new dress every week, looking their best, and attracting gorgeous guys.


Another great way to improve your self-esteem and entertain those around you is to have a great sense of humor.

One minute of laughter relaxes us for up to 45 minutes! Both laughter and smiles release "happy" hormones into the bloodstream. Men listen longer, talk longer, and feel warmer and friendlier towards women who inspire this feeling. In my book How to be Irresistible to Men I have written a chapter dealing specifically with how to be funny, and how you can further develop your own unique sense of humor.


To get the man you've always liked, the most important secrets are to:
Always look your best.
Make him laugh.
Become a challenge (not a pushover).
Have goals and aspirations that you are working towards.
If you can adopt these attitudes, you are well on your way to further success with every man that you meet.

An extremely important way to become irresistible to men is to become a master of self-expressive love. Details about this and lmuch, much more indispensable knowledge--such as why men need to feel successful--is contained in my book How to be Irresistible to Men.

rm_qcao1 48F
197 posts
6/12/2005 3:37 pm

How to get a man?
How to lose weight?
How to be sexy?
How to ...?
This is called brainwashing... telling others how to live their life...why make life any more complicated than it is?...the only advise I would have for others would be "Be yourself"...I do not make any efforts in order to attract men, however, I have met the most interesting people/men ever, and I have had the most beautiful relationships/ memories ever as will happen naturally when you meet your type...

rm_utogkaayow 43M

7/8/2005 1:49 am

i agree w/ gcao ... plain old "honesty" & "openness" can be such lonely words these days but they do still work for the best.

stevey_b_uk 37M

7/18/2005 6:32 am

hi how r u x

foresight882000 38M
2 posts
7/21/2005 8:17 pm

creative blog this is, hope to hear more from u!

The_Donald_Too 69M

7/13/2006 9:27 pm

Hi honey.. {=} This is your friend Donald aka pogieamerican from FFF. Invite me into your network please.. I'm definitely coming to the Philippines this November. I still have your BJ photo. ...\8 photo. Ingat and God Bless. >>! P.S. Nice Blog..

rm_davidforsex3 43M
40 posts
7/29/2006 4:30 am

well let me ask you this since you seem too have all the answers why is it when a guy shows interest in a women she says she wants too be friends an all but when it finally comes too the acctual metting they back off?

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