Flakiness...  

JarrodSparrow 33M
142 posts
10/17/2005 2:29 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Flakiness...


What is it about flaky people that makes them so thoughtless?

When a nice person interacts with them and goes out of their way to set up a situation right, only to be put off horrendously, what gives?

No call, no visit, no attempt.

It's like they just assume you are going to understand.

If you, the wounded party, play hard to get or just give up on them, they just don't care.

If you don't call them, they just go on.

If you don't talk to them, they talk to you and act like nothing's wrong.

Is it that it doesn't penetrate to them, or is it that they are really not interested in you, but they like the attention you give them so they continue to associate with you?

I swear if I meet one more person who shows interest in me, then when something like a date becomes planned blows it off and doesn't bother with any sort of concentrated effort to excuse themselves, I'm going to give up on this whole relationship bullshit.

I'll start saying things like "let's just go back to my place for a quiet evening of fucking in my bedroom."

and "I don't want any sort of commitments, so don't worry about calling me unless you are in the mood for sex."

or even "Go ahead and flirt with that other guy, I'll get at you later when you're less busy."

Of course, if you've taken the time to read any of my profile...or my blogs...you'd realize that all of those lines are bullshit and that I wouldn't do a damn bit of any of them.

I'm just so frustrated with girls that do this. It's not ok for a guy to blow a girl off, to not call, to lead a girl on...but suddenly because the genders are different its acceptable?

The guy is supposed to forgive this behavior and be understanding. He's supposed to tell the girl that everything is alright between the two of them and that he would still like to get together with her sometime.

The guy is supposed to continue calling to show interest and to continue flirting so the girl stays interested.

How the fuck is that fair or right? Sounds to me like guys are getting the royal screw on that one.

And I know its a little new age...but is it too much to ask that every once in a while a girl hits on a guy? Or gets his number? Or asks him out on a date?

Or maybe it does happen and I'm just not attractive enough.

I don't know.

What I do know is that I'm fed up with people who could give a damn.

If there is anyone in the MO area who is actually interested in having an honest, trustworthy relationship (in whatever since of the word) where being kind and caring is valued, let me know.

All you dumb sons of bitches who are hell bent on getting your attention, your way, and your rocks off...Stay the fuck away from me, I'm sick of you!

Jarrod

caressmewell 53F

10/17/2005 5:48 am

There are many flakes on this side both men and women. But I have met some very nice people also. It's going to take a lot of patience to meet someone on this site.


open4fun2005 58M/51F

10/17/2005 10:01 am

Jarrod there are flakes everywhere...not just in a cereal box. Men, women and couples. It isnt ok for ANYONE to blow another person off. Pretend they are interested to just get their rocks off or to see just how far they can yank your chain.

I am sorry that you obviously had someone real recently do the "know show"....it does suck! Forget the person...they are not worth your time. How hard is it to pick up the phone and call someone to let them know you wont be able to make a planned meeting...no matter what the reason is. I am very hard on people who do this to me.....they do not get a second chance.

It appears that you did meet a nice couple...at least they didnt stand you up. Let us all know how that is going for you. I realize that you are single and would like to find a single woman.....dont give up hon....be patient! There is someone out there for you!


JarrodSparrow 33M

10/17/2005 4:10 pm

caress-my experience on AdultFriendFinder has been luke warm so far, so I can't complain about it...I've gotten quite a reception from the blogger community and my profile is getting viewed, it just needs a few visual touch ups (my pic is terrible!)

Open-Always the optimist keeping me up...thank you again for your kind words...and I will keep you updated on that couple, I'm sure I'll have plenty of hot steamy sex to write about!!!

Thanx both for your comments,

J


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