An Afternoon Post  

JarrodSparrow 33M
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9/20/2005 11:36 am

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An Afternoon Post

So it's my day off...and I'm doing I'm putting up an afternoon post.

This isn't going to be a traditional post however. No fantasies, I'll save that for later (like when I'm up at 3 am

Anyway, I'm going to tell you a little about me. Or at least my social life.

My last relationship was in May. The girl was 19 almost 20 (her birthday is coming up soon) and I've known her a while.

Namely we first met on a bus in middle school/high school.

She was 13 and I was 16 or 17.

We would talk and fight and argue and things like that.

She had a crush on me then, but it was a situation where we were just too far apart in age.

At that time she was barely hitting the five foot mark and was skinny as a rail.

Fast forward about 5 years.

I'm at a library in my neighborhood, trying to get online because my parents are too behind in the times to get internet, when I spot a familiar face from my spot in the stacks. (I usually perch in the fantasy/sci fi section).

She was about 5'4" and had some meat to her. Once I realized who she was I had to remember to exhale. She had went from skinny to stacked since I last saw her. Still blonde, but obviously with some color added over the years.

I didn't immediately go over to talk to her, mostly because she had people around her and I didn't want to seem like a stalker.

I found some books and then as she walked by I went and waited. After she had went to the front and was about to leave I went to the checkout counter (I still had a while to wait on internet) and started a conversation with a girl being helped ahead of me. After a few minutes, I turned and said hi to her.

She took all of two seconds to promptly scream hi begin to hyperventilate and then to hug me.

I was a bit taken aback to say the least.

Afterwards I got my books and went out to the parking lot, internet forgotten...and hung out with her and her friends for a couple hours. I danced with her and just before leaving I gave her friend my number.

She called me by the time I had gotten home.

We dated for about a month from that time.

I could go on from there, but this whole thing was just an introduction for my main topic. One of the things I love about relationships and possibly one of the things I'm most focused on.


If you've ever dated a good kisser, then you no longer become interested in sex while with them.

Forget blow jobs.

Hell, you practically forget about second base.

When I kissed this girl I would literally lose contact with anything and everything but her lips, eyes, hair and face.

Her kisses could be soft, slow, deep, intimate, passionate, sexy, firm, needy, and mischievous all at the same time.

They would leave me breathless. I don't mean the expression...I mean I would literally get so into kissing that I would forget to breathe and then I would get light headed.

First of all her lips are incredibly soft. Second of all we just came together in that amazing cosmic way. I don't know...all the problems we had, everything else would just fall away and there would just be us, kissing, passion and feeling and emotion exploding in this one incredible act.

If you've ever experienced anything like this, savor it, because it isn't going to keep your relationship together. It isn't going to solve all your problems. It's a bonus, a plus, not a salve.

I regret to say that we are no more...haven't been for several months. She's moved on and the new guy she has makes her happy, which means that I have to be supportive, as she kept me in her life and I am her friend.

I know this is something different from the usual...but I had to get it out there...I don't know...

But all of you out there, let me hear about your kissing experiences...have you ever found someone that kissed well enough to make you forget about sex?

That's all for now though...

Much love to all my readers, Jarrod.

P.S. I just uploaded a pic to my profile, so I thought I'd share it (even though it probably is visible anyway...):


open4fun2005 58M/51F

9/20/2005 3:04 pm

Hey Jarrod!! I can certainly relate to what you are saying about kissing. I sometimes actually believe that it is more intimate then sex itself. I enjoy kissing....however I can only go so far with most people....because like I said...very intimate! I have on occasssion found someone that can kiss like there was no tomorrow. I too can forget about sex when caught up in kissing someone that can leave me breathless. Can go for what seems like hours doing nothing more than having our lips locked on one another as our tongues explore each other's mouth.
Other times......I might be very attracted to someone...but for some reason....I dont enjoy kissing them quite as sex wins out there! I do feel that a definite chemistry, physical attraction, common interest and mutual respect play a role in how well two individuals share a kiss!

Love your pic by the way!


JarrodSparrow 33M

9/21/2005 1:07 am

Thanks for the compliment on my pic.

And yeah, I too have had to give way from kissing to sex...especially if the kissing is just mediocre...

I didn't get your IM screenname from your friend invite...drop me an e-mail in my box, Open, and we'll chat sometime.

Much Love, Jarrod

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