The Bed!! Does This Hit Any Heart Chords?  

JaniceSCRN 53F
396 posts
11/27/2005 5:14 pm

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The Bed!! Does This Hit Any Heart Chords?

The Bed
On his side of the bed, he's sleeping like a baby .
Dreams are dancin' in his head lying with his lady.
It's a peaceful night, and everything's just fine on his side of the bed
But on her side of the bed, those big brown eyes are cryin' from the things he never says And deep inside she's dying. As she turns to face the wall, there's no love at all On her side of the bed.
If he'd just reach out she'd forget about all the times that he let her down
Oh but in his mind everything's all right when the lights go out.
On his side of the bed he never even noticed her negligee of red.
The very same one that she wore the night that they were wed
But he never turned his head to her side of the bed
Now on his side of the bed he wakes up and turns to say, "I love you"
But instead all he finds are pages full of words she'd never said ,And that's all she left On her side of the bed.

~My Marriage Is Not The Worst, But It Is Not The Best. I Know Many Of You Say, If You Are Not Happy With Your Current Situation, Do Something About It!! ~I Have Done Something About It. I Have Discussed Openly With My Husband What My Needs Are And How He Can Go About Meeting Them. He Either Doesn't Have A Clue How To Please A Woman Or He Is Simply Not Capable Of Changing Or Simply Does Not Want To Put The Effort Into It. ~I Treat Him With The Respect That Should Be Given To A Husband. I Am Very Submissive To Him. I Wait On Him. I Make Him Feel Wanted and Loved. I Do His Bidding Whenever He Asks. I Tell Him He Is Sexy. I Show Him I Desire And Want Him As A Man. I Touch Him Freely, I Kiss Him When He Approaches Me For A Kiss. I Have Never Denied Him Sex.~Many Times My Attention To Him Is Shunned Or Spurned. He Shows Very Little Attention To Me. At Times He Doesn't Talk To Me For Days At A Time. He Pouts When He Is Angry. He Does Not Share Of His Attraction To Me. He Doesn't Touch Me With Passion. He Doesn't Kiss Me With Passion.

~ I Do So Miss A Physically Interactive Mate. I Do So Miss The Hugs, The Kisses, The Caressing. I Do So Miss The Romance And The Passion. I Do So Miss A Mate That Shares Intimacies And Gives Of Himself.

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
11/28/2005 10:30 am

Oh Janice! You certainly do deserve all of that. But I do understand why you stay. What I don't understand is why it is so hard for men to understand that we really only want simple things.

want2play926 45F

12/1/2005 7:22 am

Janice...reading this is like looking into my life. I feel and live everything that you are. Know that I am with you on your needs and is not your problem, it is his....and my husbands too. Some men are so wrapped into themselves they can not see past what they want. I respect you for staying....I respect your wants and needs....You truely are a real woman

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