Is anyone out there for real?  

JamieandChad 40M/34F
3 posts
4/16/2006 12:25 pm

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5/1/2006 3:01 pm

Is anyone out there for real?


We've been on this site for only a short time but in that time we've written to many women and couples asking if they're interested in getting together and only a handful have written back.

What's really baffling is how many people we write to never write back, yet they accept our invitation to become network friends. Why do you want to be our "friends" if you don't even have the courtisey to write us back?

Even if you're not interested, is it so difficult to write back something to the extent of "You seem nice, but you're just not my/our type." That's what we think y'all must be thinking who are on our friends list but never wrote us back.

Actually, a much closer guess is that you're not really all that serious about this site to begin with and just want to see naked and sexy pictures of people. We don't mind showing our X rated pix to people in our network, but if we're going to offer you the invitation to join us couldn't you at least reply to our original request?

It IS surprising, though, how so many people on this site have hundreds if not THOUSANDS of friends in their network. It's highly unlikely you're truly friends with them, and, in most cases, have probably never even hooked up in reality. This isn't myspace.com!

Perhaps people join AdultFriendFinder assuming that everyone on here is of the porn star/supermodel/Men's Health-cover-model variety and maybe you're dissappointed to see that the majority of people on AdultFriendFinder are REAL people.

Now, we don't think we're Brangelina or TomKat or whoever, but we're far from being Roseanne & Tom Arnold! What the hell?

A young, healthy, attractive couple like us is actually having difficulty making a simple connection to a REAL woman (or couple) who's serious about getting together for some good times - it's unbelievable. What are we doing wrong?!

pleasureyourclit 66M
836 posts
4/16/2006 1:16 pm

It's not that you're doing anything wrong it's the nature of the beast so to speak here on this site. Many people will just invite anyone into their networks but not having really talked to them while others use their networks as a way to kept in touch with those they talk to on regular basic.

Don't give up maybe be alittle more sective as to who you write but in time you will find those who are looking to meet others.

Hppy Easter!


CAMONCAMFUN 46M/36F  
2 posts
4/16/2006 2:15 pm

hi we have been on site for a while now, started off as standard members but with hardly any luck! alot of single men and thats about it!!!
so we upgraded for a month and have had a little more response. but to be honest its hard to find a real couple who have the same interests.
don't give up as we haven't! we send out winks via our cupid matches and we have done 3 cam to cam now.
check our profile get in touch!!??......


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