The reason I'm here  

JamaicanPumPum 33F
22 posts
3/10/2005 12:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The reason I'm here

Well I have a man that has been fucking up. I love him to death. But he has been fucking up for months now. I don't understand why when I am more openminded than most women. We have threesomes, I love giving head and I am a big freak. I am young and goal orintated. I cook and clean his apartment. When I grocrey shop for me I grocery shop for him. I am 21 and he is 43. I don't ask for anything unless I really need it. I am not clingy and he still cheats. The bad part about it he denied me. He lied and told her that he didn't have a girlfriend. I have told him on more than one occassion I wouldn't be so mad if he told her about me. But he didn't and he was treating her better than he was treating for the brief month they were aquainted. I am looking to get back out there and have some fun.

mygmyg 59M

3/10/2005 4:15 pm

jamaicanPumPum, never let any man treat you this way. He is more than lucky, in heaven on earth, having the affections of a lady 20 yrs. younger!
Time to get of his one way street and back on the highway, where your going to be appreciated.

KDBabyyyyy 39M
2 posts
3/10/2005 5:06 pm

Well then, do what you do! I'm not trying 2 hate on that man or what he does. But I do feel like he is just throughing shit in the game for the rest of us! "Honesty is the best policy!" Those are some of the truest words that I've heard in life. So do what u do! Get out there, have fun , get yours and enjoy it all in the Process! 21 yrs. old, damn u got a lot moree living 2 do.(I'm not much older.) But believe me, there is a hell of a lot more going on out here, then you could possiably imagine! So again, do what it is u do! U take care, keep your head up and have all the fun in the world!


cappacinoflava 38M
17 posts
3/10/2005 7:01 pm

wow..u have a point babe...let me know if i can make u feel special

EuropeDenmark 60M
2 posts
3/11/2005 8:16 am

Dont take it-it will NEVER stops...and you will never stor crying!!!

rm_onrnooo 57M
3 posts
3/11/2005 8:18 am

hi sweetheart dont let any man use you you are young and buetifull move on and find a man to respect you

pantyhose98 60T

3/11/2005 8:29 am

Hello pum pum-People can only do what you allow them to do! If you know he's like this then why stay? If he does't have any self respect then how is he going to respect other people, most of all you??? I feel you are being taken advantage of. I mean in his mind he's got a good thing going on-he has a cook and housekeeper,a sex freak when he wants it wild, he's not honest-and tries to play you. I know its hard to face up to, but you must for your own sake. We have all been there and you will survive, be stronger for it, and find someone that knows how to luv!!!!!!
And as cruel as this sounds I want to know if you keep putting up with him-then whats wrong with you??? YOU DESERVE BETTER START KNOWING IT!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck, you will be in my thoughts!

1drey 44M

3/14/2005 1:27 pm

This is just my input. The age difference is too much. I am 32 and I would love to have a young 21 year old. Deep down inside, he knows it wont last so he is just riding it until the wheels fall off.

SlurpMMMmmm 37F
3 posts
3/16/2005 7:00 am

Dig this Sugah,
First of all, like my BigMa used to say: It's alright to go above and beyond for our men, but DON'T SPREAD YOURSELF 2 THIN.
At 21 you should be experiencing life not playing house. Fuck his groceries and his cleaning. Being 43 he's lived the best years of his life and he's experienced things you haven't gotten around to yet. Have fun. Now look at the facts. You've given him a 3-some, good head, and freaky sex and HE STILL ISN'T HAPPY. Fuck him. One of the classic mistakes we make as women is to love hard for a man that doesn't love us back with the same enthusiasum. Again......Fuck him. You can show him better than you can tell him. If for some reason you decide to stay involved with him a little longer (which you will regret) the least you could do is stop askin for things only when you need them. JUICE HIS ASS. He's using you for personal gain so you may as well get yours. A lot of people may not like my last statement but...............................................

rm_poohbear101 50M
3 posts
3/17/2005 8:11 am

Why your man would be out cheatin on you when he could have some of your fine PumPum is beyond me!!! If you want somebody who will treat you (and eat you) right, GET BACK TO ME!!! I WILL hook you up emotionally and sexually...

rm_Nicholas67 44M

3/23/2005 3:44 pm

It is strange, but a lot of us men are telling you the truth. Look I am 38 and I agree, I would love to slip into a woman half my age. I also realize it would last only so long before she looked elsewhere. You are 21. If you just want to fuck around a little with older guys, fine. But, whatever you do don't tie yourself down. Live your life, go out get drunk, laugh at some of the dumbest shit imaginable. That is what being your age is about. So, stop assuming the role of house wife, get out there have fun and lose the 100lbs+ of dead meat you are carrying. It will be better for you in the long run.

msbniles 35F

4/27/2005 12:39 pm

A person will do what you let them. If you continue to let him hurt you he will, because he know that can. I believe in giving a person a second chance but if it happened again he's gone. At that point he figured that you didn't do anything before you probably won't do anything at all.

rm_wams 48M
1 post
5/5/2005 8:24 pm

dump the asshole for not being honest in an open relationship. He'll just do it again. Unfortuneatly it gives the 'good' guys a bad .

ladybibusty 36F

5/8/2005 1:55 pm

Been there DIVORCED that- girl you are in the right place on the right site looking for distraction.

BuickBrian 38M

5/11/2005 11:27 pm

I wish I could take the pain away. You shouldn't be dating your dads friends anyway, probably not too satisfying outside of head anyway!

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