Meeting people for basic needs should not be this difficult.  

Jakhammer269 37M
3 posts
5/10/2005 10:33 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Meeting people for basic needs should not be this difficult.


I have to mention how disappointed I am in the sheer lack of results from AdultFriendFinder. The concept is great, but is showing me too few results for something I have personally and financially invested so much into--clearly not the smorgasbord of sexual possibilities it appears to be!: In the two months I've been a member (and I am a premium silver member with the standard member contact feature!), I've had only one response from someone that I emailed. Two other responses were from my winks. And absolutely no responses from the literally seventy or so other girls I've written thoughtful emails to--Goddamn, I spent two nights in a row writing dozens and dozens of these thoughtful-but still to the point-emails to women in nearby areas without one real reply! This even defeats the law of averages. Can someone please tell me why an attractive, intelligent, thoughtful guy with such a high sex drive is having so much trouble at a sex personals site?

binny1981 35M

5/11/2005 12:28 am

We out number the woman on this site by a lot, lol. Woman arn't really known to message guys first because they get enough messages comeing in. I know how you feel though. All I get for responces is girls asking me to sign up for their porn site.


rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
5/11/2005 12:38 am

Are you in the wrong State??? Just looking at the statistics, it appears that most of the AdultFriendFinder members are in Texas??? lol... don't know if it is a fact; just an appearance to be a fact.... lol...


oldrwomanforu 65F

5/11/2005 4:55 am

well first you have to recognize the ratio of men to women on here. it can get overwhelming for a woman. i remember when i first signed on i got over 350 emails the first week! there's just no way to get thru them all. then to just pick and choose a few? although it's nice to have choices too many can just muddle ur mind. i tend to consider the locals first then whittle that down by my personal preferences. i do use an auto-reply so at least the guy can know that his message was received. we've got to remember this isn't a "find the love of ur life" site so physical attributes are the most important. One small thing u don't like about a person can make u move quickly onto another. if it helps any what turns me off is a guy that on his iitial contact is just downright nasty. i can play with the best of them but i think most women appreciate a litle respect. we're all looking for basically the same thing here but most men take the attitude that that they are "giving" the woman something she can't get and "needs". most of the time truthfully it's the man that's been going without and not that he should be grateful, but he should appreciate that the woman is willing to fulfill his desires as well as fulfilling her own.


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