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Jade's BDSM Dictionary
Jade's BDSM Dictionary
I know you all have been dying to read this one and yes I'm on fire with the writing this morning. Welcome to Jade's BDSM dictionary.
Submissive Classifications - for those of you who don't know what a submissive is then I suggest you refer to other sources before reading this.
Lap Pet = Cuddly loving pet you and squeeze and hold, snuggle with, etc. Think of them as a dog or some such.
Pet = Loving term for one's submissive whom you cherish. Oftentimes your pet will receive rewards. The term pet is also used as a reward name to show favor.
Slave = Term of ownership and displeasure. The term slave is often used to show disfavor.
Painslut = Slave who is an extreme masochist and wants most of all to be punished.
Slut = Term used to describe a slave who wishes to be degraded and proven they aren't worthy of the Mistress/Master they serve.
Gorean = It's all about ownership baby. Most feel the Gorean type of slavery is predominately male. This may or may not be true but my understanding of the form is that Gor slavery is all about showing ownership without having to set a constant example. Punishment is for the sake of punishment. Your slave does something wrong then punishment is extolled. A gorean master/mistress will often bind a slave so they don't escape and will leave them bound as they take their pleasure of them so they don't have to retie them later.
BDSM = It's all about the pain/pleasure mix. Punishment is extolled because of the whims of the Mistress/Master or to simply bring their slave pleasure from pain. A BDSM master/mistress will bind their slave so they can have their way with them and leave them bound so they're helpless in the process but loving it.
Now me I'm a mixture of the two, with most things these days Tradition gets lost, old gets mixed in with the new and we all find our own way. But with both styles it's all about what's going on in one's mind during the process. It's all gravy baby as long as it's SSC (Safe Sane and Consentual). If anyone has some thoughts to add go ahead.
2/7/2006 7:11 am
Hey jade. Do you take on newbies? I love a dominant woman. You are looking hot in your pic. I'd love for you to tell me what to do. I am in southern MD. Love to meet up and see what happens.|