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11/15/2005 9:54 am

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For those of you who have become regular readers of my blog you know that I was recently asked by an interested party what would happen if we became involved. I gave this question serious and protracted thought after which I penned 6 possible scenerios. I have randomly posted these during the last week. Here is scenerio #1.

1. If we have a protracted interaction that continues on the mental/emotional level that has already been established with the inclusion of a sexual relationship that is ultimately gratifying to both of us.

We are both Married! Likewise, we both have great responsibilities to our households. An affair, no matter how involved, cannot be allowed to interfere with those responsibilities. Nor, can our actions due to having such an affair become tainted in a way so that either spouse becomes aware of the intimate nature of our friendship. If the emotional connection were to become so strong that, it could potentially endanger either marital bond then, we would have to immediately cease to have any dealings with one another. In other words... to have love for one another is not the danger; but, to act as if we are in love with one another is. If these actions cannot be controlled then we must stop seeing each other.

MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
11/20/2005 12:15 pm

To believe for one moment that either house would not notice the difference in the behavior of either of you may be unrealistic. Just knowing that someone else wants to have that deep connection is heady mood altering stuff. It would be wise to step back and weigh the cost of either house becomming aware. Is what's being offered equal to or better than what you stand to loose? JSNG, your sexy, but strings do become knotted when attachments are permitted.

MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
11/22/2005 10:36 am


as much as i plan ...i never take in the fact of feelings....

live more, laugh often, love much

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