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9/15/2005 6:24 am

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I read a blog this morning that I felt compelled to answer. So I'm making the reply the topic of my blog today. It was a mild slam on the women of this site. but it was definately truism. Weigh in and tell me what you think.


I can feel your heartache. When I first became a member of AdultFriendFinder I used to receive a lot of responses to my contacts the asked me to go to www. (insert your name here).com. It sucks I know. Then I started to look more closely at the profiles that I did respond to. Once I did that I began to notice a few things. This might be helpful to you.

1. Look at the pics. Some of the cheaper “internet pros” have the imprint of the modeling agency of porn site they work for on the pic. Another dead giveaway is if you see the same stunning pic on 2-3 profiles.
2. Next thing I began to look at was the tag line. Honest people write honest statements. Not “Oh I need to CUM so bad”
3. Three is the profile itself. When they describe themselves and what they are looking for; is it personable? Or is it designed to as the rapper eminem would say; to “make my pee pee go, doing doing doing?” Sad truth but if it is the later more likely than not it’s a professional. Did they take time to fill out the entire profile? Yes, this is a swingers site and most people want to be at least somewhat low key but; if the only things that are filled out on a profile are: AGE:25, RACE: Caucasian, BODY TYPE: Athletic and BREASTS:38D then more than likely… doing doing doing.
4. Lastly, I’d compare the list of people who have viewed me to the list of people that I have tried to contact. If they took the time to look at your profile then 95% of the time it is a real live person. Sometimes they will have checked you out even though you didn’t think that on first glance they were the type that you were looking for.

You may even find that the very woman who says on her profile that she wants a “relationship” just doesn’t want a parade of men with their dicks in their hands marching into her life. She just wants to have a friend that she can trust to get her “freak on” with. I did.

I hope this helps you out Pro.

rm_smilin692 46M
1 post
9/15/2005 7:30 am

I agree. You need t watch out for the professionals, it gets frustrating when you are contacted by them. so take this advice and look closer at the descriptions. Great advice Jest Sex No Games! Thanks!

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
9/15/2005 7:33 am

you know what your spot on so many complain of the spam....and that is exactly what it is it is spam....and yet all it takes is a little more attention paid and you can know just what it is without the stuff around just like the rest of the spam you get in your other email inboxes just delete


rockwriter58 56M
1389 posts
9/15/2005 8:14 am

These are all good pieces of advice. I have taken to posting some of the handles of these pros on the site. If you are interested, check these recent posts: Courtesan Advisory #7 and Too Good to be True. Good luck!

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9/25/2005 11:29 am


you have taken a very interesting approach to this problem. keep me updated.

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