IslandBlueEyes 51F
12 posts
1/29/2006 8:12 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Ok...here is the first question. Can anyone tell me why men only want to hook up during the week?I'm pretty sure there are women like myself who have to get up at the crack of dawn to go to work.By the time the day is over....we are just too damned tired to go anywhere.What's wrong with the weekend....when we are bored silly?If you absolutely HAVE you ask us out during the week...could you make a little earlier than 8 or 9?You may not realize this...but 5;30am comes VERY quickly! lol.

cybertraveler 58M
3 posts
1/30/2006 5:03 pm

true, I am up in the morning, and at the gym by 6am so If I go out with someone during the week its after work, but come the weekend all bets are off.

F1reman6969 49M

1/31/2006 8:05 am

that's pretty irritating.
aren't weekends supposed to be open availability?
a long saturday morning in bed sounds like more fun than a rushed weekend.
but that's just me....

f 1 r e m a n 6 9 6 9

4uoralrewards 56M
437 posts
2/1/2006 9:24 am

Well, perhaps in the big city not everyone's schedule is 9 to 5 (or in your case earlier). People here seem to work longer hours...

That is reason number 1. Reason number 2 (being brutally honest) is a lot of guys just want to hook up for sex. I know that might sound hard to believe, but it's the way some guys are.

34 posts
2/3/2006 6:42 pm

I agree with 4uoralrewards. But another thing that comes to mind is some (a lot?) of those guys are perhaps involved with another women (married?) saying that they are going out with the boys to catch a game at the local pub. Just a thought

Serpico127 46M
1 post
2/17/2006 6:48 pm

Hey listen....if I met YOU personally on a monday I wouldn't want to wait til the week-end ( you're gorgeous)...also I work weekends alot..we calgarians tend to work far too much ...i also agree with EZ2 about the possible married scenario?

rm_justice2236 44M
2 posts
3/4/2006 1:00 pm

I myself get my son on weekends so it is better for me to go out during the week, But at the same time after a long day of work who really feels like going anywhere?

rm_shanesmith4 43M

3/22/2006 9:13 pm

For the first date I think a week day is great if things are going down hill, and there is some bad vibes on both sides either of you can say gota get up early tomorrow thanks for drink, nice talking to you!!! If things are going good it makes the weekend that much better when it arrives.

jim19694U 47M  
3 posts
3/26/2006 9:08 pm

the biggest reason i would think is married or attached and the other goes to bed early as she has to work also. Looking for sex also and their partner is to tired or the man isnt worthy of it anyway. Some of us work shiftwork so its even harder and have kids part time also. Have to say I would love to be at your beck and call though your intoxicatingly beautiful.

SachsCeaseStaff 54M

3/29/2006 2:29 pm

It is not the easiest thing to try to create enough time for dating. I think that most of us would be guilty of that. We tend to use the weekend for catching up on the things that cannot be done during the work week. From there it goes to respecting each others situation and not imposing ones self. I myself have no desire to start a date at 9:00PM neither, but having dinner or meeting for a coffee/drink to share some company should not be totally disqualified.


7/7/2006 10:50 pm

Jan 29 is long gone but I will post my thought's on weekday/night meeting's. I read a few (first few) message's, and though this AdultFriendFinder, getting to know a gal is a very important part of the process, meeting for a meal or drink during the week makes sense to me, a late night meeting would be presumptious, but a 6 meeting for a drink I could meet. I work 6 to 5 daily and often later, but in my position I can adjust to meet. A hello and how are you meeting over a scrumptious meal is a great meeting and further meet's could be adjusted as required. Does that make sense?

rm_CzechMate4Me 52M

8/9/2006 10:27 pm

Well people, try working my schedule...6-8 weeks on...working everyday from 5:30 am till 11:00 pm...no days off.

I honestly prefer weekend meetings myself..when i actually am home to have some time to relax.

Beside's, if we men are trying to meet a woman like Island Blue Eyes, she should be the one who decides where, when and what time.

The opposite is true if the shoe is on the other foot, ie if Island Blue Eyes is trying to meet one of us, we should be the ones to decide where, when and what time.

Simply put, if we both want to meet, mutually agree on where, when and time and if there is no agreement, so be it...try try again!

Don't sweat the small stuff or the big shit will kill ya!

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