Help me out here....  

Isabel72006 44F
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8/29/2006 7:20 pm

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9/6/2006 6:53 pm

Help me out here....

As I read through the profiles on AdultFriendFinder, I see that a lot of men are supposedly not into the "Bar Scene". Okay I can understand that and even support it, because I am not into it either. So why is it that when some men contact me, it is as they are coming up to me in a bar? Using "Hey baby, you are so beautiful" or "Your place or mine" or "Wanna Fuck" and last but not least "What's your sign". Here is a tip read my profile, because it tells you when my birthday is and it even shows you a picture of what my sign is. As for the other "pick up" lines, did any of those work for you in the bars..... No, then why do them here? I understand that to some degree on this site you have a better chance of getting what you want, but please put in a little effort. Talk to us. You are more likely to score if there is a mental connection.


spinninginVT 40M

8/30/2006 11:40 pm

Isabel-

interesting and pertinent commentary! my experience has been that guys have a deep-seated urge to act like idiots around women, and unfortunately the internet doesn't mask it very well! chats, ims, and emails are the domain of the horny bastard, and there's not much that's going to change there, unfortunately...

i have found that women, as you pointed out, are much more receptive to interesting conversation, via chat or email, than pure physical lust...save that for after you meet someone and get to know them a bit, fellas! however, the numbers around here put the ladies in the driver's seat, so at least you have the power to filter out the idiots, even if they plug up your inbox, fill your im screen and bug you in chat!

cheers!

(oh by the way, wanna fuck?) hee hee


Isabel72006 44F

8/31/2006 1:53 pm

Thank you for responding. Yes I do understand that men do act like idiots around women. Lets be real though, this is not high school nor college and I do not need a macho mating ritual, like jumping off a roof to impress the girl.... Come on now we have all grown up...well maybe some of us. The thing I really want to get across is, if you want great sex with a woman, and make her orgasm hard, then have the mental connection. Seriously, take the time to get to know the person a little and great sex will follow.


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