Ive Had It!!  

Irrisistabella 38F
13 posts
4/18/2006 2:21 pm

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6/3/2006 4:13 pm

Ive Had It!!

I have alot of guy friends..i dont get along with females.....anywhoo...i think you can stay in a hotel room with guys and not have anything happen!! well i get accused of screwing one guy...which absolutely never happened!! i have not touched anyone but the man i was committed too..when im with a man, i dont care who you are, rockstar,politician, actor, or just some hot piece of shit ...i will not cheat on him!!! maybe he accuses coz hes guilty himself???

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

4/18/2006 4:15 pm

You might be on the right track.

Lady Bambi

redwolf459 57M
9 posts
4/18/2006 5:21 pm

Irrisistabella, Hi. Nothing wrong with guy friends and I too agree that "you can stay in a hotel room.. and not have anything happen". I have been involved with a lady that felt the same, and honestly, it drove me a bit nuts... not because I thought anything happened, but because I know guys. while he may trust you, why do you feel he should trust the other guy? the real question is... while you may also trust him, if he stayed in a hotel room with another women...would you say it was O.K. & trust her with him? did you both talk about it b-4? was it ok with everyone??? If so... noone has cause to bitch at the other. Anyway, I truly hope things work out. Take Care. Redwolf459

Looking0100 54M

4/18/2006 5:22 pm

Hello, and welcome to AdultFriendFinder blogs.

I believe you when you say you are faithful. It is wrong for someone to accuse without hard proof that something actually happened.

This guy accused you of screwing another guy. . But that never happened. You are very committed to one guy and just one guy. Good for you.

Maybe this guy is guilty of infidelity or maybe he wants to end the relationship and this is an easy way out. I say that if someone cannot trust his/her lover, then maybe they shouldn't commit to a relationship. These people may be better off with meaningless sex. Or even better, they could refrain from having all contact with people, but I think that would be wrong. Even these insecure people need love. They just don't know how to ask for it.

pierre_moz 40M
4 posts
4/18/2006 5:29 pm

stop monkeying around with these other men,lady men-human beings are natually jealousy.

rm_LikUrPanties 59M

4/18/2006 5:59 pm

Jealousy... interesting stuff... for sure.
I know... I've been known to get bitten by the green beast.

People don't get jealous because they dislike you. Generally it happens to someone who loves you.
I suppose a jealous person might also be an obsessed person.... if the GOOD love wasn't there. Meaning that there was a lot of bitterness during the relationship.... then that persons jealousy is likely from an obsession.

But.... if there is/was love... it would be hard, to say the least, to walk out of a motel room and claim to have not shared a moment with man or men inside. Well... it would be difficult for the loving, but jealous, person to accept anyway.

Sometimes, in your situation, you have to try and wear the other persons shoes to see whats going on.

Sometimes... it's a sign that it's time to walk away gently.

Good luck.
And welcome to BlogLand!

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
4/18/2006 8:21 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

SirMounts 102M

4/20/2006 4:31 pm

Well, I would guess there are as many wrongly accused, as who are wrongly... not accused. But do those who point fingers without facts really matter, anyway?
Welcome to blogland, Irrisistabella. *smiling*

Irrisistabella 38F
2 posts
4/24/2006 10:31 pm

thanks for your comments and stuff guys!!
im still really torn here..now i have this gorgeous guy- hes 6'5 and tan, just perfect...he wants me, but my heart is with HIM...the one who accuses me of shit ...therefore i still stay true to him
am i just flat out retarded? (

Looking0100 54M

5/8/2006 3:02 pm

No, you are not retarded, or even stupid.

Your heart is pure, and it tells you what it wants.

You love one person, because love is blind. It knows not what you think is right. It only wants.

You love this one person but think he is bad person. Feelings and thoughts do not belong together. A person can want something but know that it isn't right. A person might think something is right, but may not want it.

It is quite all right for you to love someone who is wrong for you, as long as he doesn't get you into legal trouble, or do some VERY BAD stuff to you physically. If either is happening, you need to vacate this relationship immediately for your own sake (and your life).

MFCouple4BiGirl 35M/36F

5/11/2006 9:03 pm

Why is it always single dudes with bad pictures from the 80's responding to most blogs...kinda scary!

rm_Lovestud00 39M

5/25/2006 3:42 pm

Being faithful to your guy isn't the only way to show him that you love and care for him, my friend. However, taking his feelings into consideration regarding "being in hotel rooms with other guys" can definitely prove to him your love and care for him. This is so because "being in hotel rooms with other guys" is something that obviously you love doing and if he sees that you've refrained from doing something that you simply love in effort to ease his insecurities, I am almost certain that he will appreciate the gesture tremendously. However, ensure that this action is a compromise and not a sacrifice, meaning if you are willing to give up something you love, he should be able to reciprocate unquestionbably. Best of luck, my friend.

Irrisistabella 38F
2 posts
6/3/2006 4:13 pm

i dont love spending time in hotel rooms with other guys ..its just if i have too, then i will...i dont do anything in there sexual with my guy friends...thing is i do love him very very much- i have never cheated on him at all!! i dont know what to do- i miss him..but i think if you love someone enough- you do let them go?? i dunno!!!

rm_hot3172 44M/43F

6/4/2006 1:22 am

Time to grow up! Go for the other hot guy! Duh!!

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