Why I am here  

Intenseconnect 69M
2 posts
7/12/2006 7:07 pm

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7/20/2006 1:11 pm

Why I am here

Hello All,

The question that has been pretty much settled in my mind is this: What is the difference between lust and love?

I've reached a place in my life were I have found that love is indeed the most important gift we can find, many of us do not. We get into relationships for many different reasons, some are healthy and some are not. Been there done that.

Several women in my life have ruined and jaded me...they were highly passionate, emotional and spiritual lovers. One was an exwife. And so for one last time, I search for that woman that desires a connection on many levels, yet she is very sexual, and very sweet and kind...and she makes me laugh. We touch each others hearts and minds and we savor those precious moments.

I begin again an adventure here at AdultFriendFinder, knowing how elusive the goal...so many here want nothing to do with love....so they settle for lust....not that it isn't fun....but you can't take it home with you...except in your mind....and you go searching for the next partner.

(to be continued)


Ok I am back.

I haven't found anyone here....but here is an ad I placed at CraigsList today....


Have you ever been in love? Have you ever experienced magical kisses that set your soul on fire? Are you an emotional and intense lover?

Do you believe that those over age 40 folks can still experience passion?

DWM 59 6'2" 205lbs, Fit, educated, worldly, laid back yet assertive, semi-retired, former marine, former violinist, former revenue agent/accounting manager who is down to earth and easy to be with seeks you.

I love music (jazz fusion, blues and new age), slow dancing, candles, incense, Thai food, walks while holding hands, laughter and interesting trails in the gorge and around the mountain.

Seeks a gentle, sweet, affectionate, laid back, kissable, caressable, emotionally whole and available woman to slowly explore possibilities. Let’s dance that last dance forever.


And within an hour I got 4 responses...I am blown away.

One of them was/is stunningly beautiful.

Time will tell

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
7/12/2006 8:22 pm

welcome to blogging. Very good first blog, and I also enjoyed your profile. I think you are mistaken in your last paragraph. There are many here, men and women who are looking for love. I hope you find the one you are looking for. I think she will be one lucky lady.

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

Intenseconnect 69M

7/13/2006 5:31 pm

Thank You amoldenough for your kind words.

I know why I get so few responses.

I'm asking for several things that are difficult or rare.

In my years I've found that most women are not easily Multi-Orgasmic....so that diminishes the potential demographic right off the bat. I think that "Normal" women are put off by that reqirement.

Another thing that women may not like is that I am looking for essentially a weekend only relationship.

My 81 year old mother lives with me and as an only child I am all she's got since dad died. I won't break that covenent with her.

And the third issue is my age....59 is almost in the over the hill club....LOL

There may be snow on the roof...but believe me the fire burns bright and steady.

If anyone would care to...I'd appreciate any critical and constructive comments about my profile.


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