My first time  

ImmortalFire22 32F
34 posts
4/22/2005 10:24 pm

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10/16/2006 5:29 pm

My first time

Thank you to the people who took the time to respond to my first blog. now i understand. i am bi-curious, i just did it backwards. oh well, i am actually pretty confident that i will be able to say that i am bi-sexual pretty soon. i am so very strongly attracted to men. i have no doubt that i will enjoy the feeling of a hard cock inside of me once i finally experience it.

It's funny though. i have tons of fantasy's about what it will be like to fuck a man, but my brain always skips the first time. i think i'm scared to think about my first time. i'm not really sure why. i know that the first time is different for everyone. but i really don't want it to be with someone who will just ruin the whole experience for me. that would probably keep me firmly in the land of lesbians, which is not that bad a place i've been there for awhile now, but i would really like to branch out.

so i have another question. can anyone give me some tips for my first time to make sure it isn't ruined?

sandhazard 54M
129 posts
4/22/2005 11:52 pm

Just make sure that the person you choose realizes how special this will be for both of you. Take your time and don't let it be over to fast. With what you have said in your post I think you have the right idea of what it should be.

Have fun and be safe.

rm_erotic_loki 54M

4/23/2005 3:21 am

Hi immortal,

same as fucking a girl really pleanty of tease and lube and be gentle at least the first time. Don't give him piles by being too rough.
just tease it in and touch him lots.
Works fine with a little bondage too.
remember to keep using lube too. Expensive not vaseline types feel best
Think about whether your going to give him enema or get him to do it hisself too. Can be part of the foreplay. Shame you're not in UK would love to be a lesbian's first male.
who's the lucky bugger?

ThreeSteps3 49M
1 post
4/23/2005 4:11 am

If you actually do go through with it, make sure it's with a guy who is clean, but experienced. The reason I say this is because a young inexperienced guy will cum real fast and probably hurt you since it will be your first time. A experienced man should take his time and make it pleasurable for you. The first time he enters you it will probably hurt, but then it should fee better as you and him screw. A younger inexperienced guy will probably make you feel like having sex with a man is the most terrible thing in the world. Look for a man who is gentle and understands what you want, but you are gonna have to tell him your situation too, so he will understand. Good Luck!

doingit1946 70M

4/26/2005 2:53 pm

It's difficult being a regular because there are so many blogs on
this site already that a person would have to spend a lot of time
keeping up.

As to you first time, I think that you should spend a few times in
bed naked before the actual 'first'. A little finger work such as
you're probably involved with at present is a good start. In fact,
do everything except the actual insertion and you will probably get
to the point of asking for it yourself.

looking4uNOW14 31M

10/16/2006 2:32 pm

i sent you a mail, email me, i think we would be a good match, but we should talk to get to know each other a littlebit first, bye Aaron

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