Are women really looking for sex?  

ScutaCorerRosie 39M
4 posts
7/29/2006 12:28 am

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8/5/2006 12:13 am

Are women really looking for sex?

I've been a member here off and on for a few years now and I'm just wondering a few things. First of all what percentage of woman are real on here? I mean I've chatted with a few but the majority are bots that just want to solicit your email. How many guys have actually hooked up with a woman from here and wheres the best place to get to know them or find the real ones so you can start some sort of relationship? I'd be interested to hear from both men and women and especially people from my area. ie Utah. Thanks
Look forward to future blogs about some of my fantasies and fulfilled pleasures.

phoenix639 49F

7/29/2006 1:02 am

I think you may find many women have joined with the intention of casual sex, only to change their minds (for many reasons).

They have found others areas of fun here instead...blogs, magazine & chatrooms.

I have made lots of friends & have met a good few people too. Yes there are fakes, trolls & bots....easy to spot though.

The problem is too many men forget the women on here are human beings & not paid workers in the sex industry. They forget that we need to be attracted on many levels before anything will happen.

Very very few women will just meet & have sex. They want to get to know someone too.

If a man just wants a shag...why doesnt he go to a working girl instead.

If most men changed their attitude about sex on here they would actually be more likely to meet women & probably become intimate more often. The testosterone fueled & aggressive approach does not work, nor does whining about not getting any.

There are many 'successful' meets on this site...but many are platonic not sex based.

The site promises heaven & hellfire but some men forget that its not the site staff who are members its real people with feelings, morals & integrity.

Stop seeing the words 'sex' is my advice to all & see the words 'friend finder' then build on that & if anything else happens great. If not there is no disappointment is there.

waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

7/29/2006 1:21 am

I couldn't give you a percentage because I just don't know. I do know it's hard for the men on here to meet real women. My husband and I have heard this over and over. Keep blogging and visit some of the female bloggers and soon you will discover who's real. You should check out sexymamma662003I know she's real.......I've chatted with her and talked with her on the phone. She travels to Utah usually on a monthly basis. She and I are pretty good friends and she's a total sweetheart and beautiful to boot

ScutaCorerRosie 39M
23 posts
8/4/2006 11:36 pm

I want to thank both of you ladies for responding. Phoenix639 you are bery right about not just looking for the sex and finding other relations with women. I don't think of every woman on here as a sex object or jst want her for that but it seems hard to even get through the front door to let most women know that. I will take both your advice and try to blog more and find some real women to chat with. And I'll check out sexymamma Thanks. Hope to hear more from you both. Visit anytime. If you have any ideas on what you'd like to read here or discuss please let me know.

LDL20009 40F

1/17/2010 1:49 pm

I joined this site for casual encounters and have found that most men lie about themselves...constantly. Ranging from posting someone else's photos, how tall they are, marital status, etc. The last guy I met had about 5 missing front teeth and didn't seem to mind. His pictures never showed this. I'm getting really annoyed by all of this. I haven't made any false statements on this site and would appreciate others doing the same.

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