A quick change of pace.  

Igottahaveit69 56M
34 posts
8/19/2006 9:57 am

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11/30/2007 10:54 am

A quick change of pace.

Ladies and Gentlemen. I think that I am on the verge of an epiphany.

When I was younger, I thought (felt?) that HORNINESS resided in my crotch. Like most teen age boys, I was a walking talking hard on. I could (and did) get hard watching girls walk down the street. The very thought of a pretty girl sent me into a satyr like fit of carnal abandon. >>!

Now that I am approaching middle age (still hoping to pass the 100 mark before I check out for the last time), I am finding that I can be horny as an old goat WITHOUT getting a "throbbing blue veiner". \8 Don't misunderstand me. I have no problem getting it up. What I am talking about is a mental horniness.

The physical needs are easy to satisfy. Take the problem in hand and viola! The mental needs are much more difficult to deal with though. They are the things that lead to such frustration. It is the mental desire that cannot be satisfied with a casual fling or a visit from a call girl (or gigolo if you prefer). The mental desire needs a give and take that is deeper than mere sex.

I think that most of us at this site are here to try and satisfy this mental longing. We are here reaching out to others looking for validation, companionship, comfort and joy. These are the very things that we use to get from our spouses, neighbors and friends at work. Now, neighbors are a thing of the past. Families have been separated by the job market and easy transportation. Divorce is so commonplace that we don't even try to work out our differences. Free time is almost non-existent (as a matter of choice).

I am still a walking talking bundle of horniness. The difference is that I am looking for something more satisfying than a quickie. Tell me if you feel the same way. Or am I totally out to lunch?

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
8/19/2006 11:12 am

It all begins in the mind...no kidding...

Nahhhhhhhhhhhh you are not out to lunch...
not until it's time to be there anyway
....seems to me that you are in blogland right now

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

CB_2 51F

8/19/2006 11:24 am

You are so right! It's definitely very much a mental thing.

Blogito ergo sum.

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