Fuck me stupid?  

rm_I_NV_Satiety 47F
206 posts
7/23/2006 9:00 am

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Fuck me stupid?

I have been wrestling with a question now for some time. It seems to me that men really would prefer a somewhat dingy broad when it comes to fucking....someone who won't question, won't open her mouth, and never would think to do anything but what their man wants to do.

I have to know...is this true?

I have found that there are a select number of younger men that really prefer older women BECAUSE they know what they want and aren't afraid to ask for it. I've also noticed that men over 40 seem to be looking for a lover in every sense of the word, and seem to prefer a woman who can carry on a conversation.

Ladies, I most certainly need you to chime in on this one with your opinion...what have been your findings? What about the men YOU sleep with? Do you prefer them to be somewhat articulate, or do they just need a good package and a great tongue?

I could be wrong....this is what I would like to know. I don't think there is any shame in admitting you would prefer a (wo)man who isn't so "fiesty", and I also don't believe there is any shame in preferring your partner to look a certain way.

Hey! That begs a further question....

If you had to make a choice, would you prefer to be with a "not so enlightened" (wo)man that looked great, or an intelligent (wo)man that wasn't a Barbie? I suppose it's the age old Clark Kent/Superman question....but I'm asking anyway!

pierd 51M
222 posts
7/23/2006 8:07 pm

Your last paragraph gives me a kinky idea: If one was to go not onto a blind, but mute date, then Barbie would be perfect: she'd provide the looks while I could fantasize about the rest of her personality.

There is, however, a millennia old fable (Aesop, I believe) about "The Ass in a Wolf’s Skin" (or something along those lines), point being that as long as the donkey wore the wolf’s skin AND kept quiet, everyone would treat him as if he was a wolf. But as soon as he opened his mouth, the truth became apparent, and looks no longer mattered.

Relevance? Before I get to it, another digression. I don't know about other men, but I find supermodels extremely sexy ... until I hear them speak. The very tone of their voices, not to mention the contents of what they say, shatters all illusions: instead of a sexy, husky, confident voice uttering enticing, enigmatic, nuanced phrases reflecting experience, wisdom and passion (a la Lauren Becall, Ingrid Bergman etc.) I hear pip-squeaking bubble-heads who consider a broken nail "a tragedy". Complete turnoff.

Point? As some scientists stated in the past, the biggest sex organ is the brain - both mine and my partners. Sex (to me) is about taking pleasure and mutual worship - and I can't worship a 'woman' who has as much spunk / verve / passion / va-va-vum as a blow-up-doll. Sex with Barbie is not sex, but rather simultaneous masturbation with incidental use of each other’s bodies - better than nothing, but not very satisfying.

You ask great question, I NV!

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MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
7/23/2006 8:43 pm

i am a submissive...not to be confused with a doormat. i prefer a Dominant man that has the intellect to stimulate all of who i am. For me it isn't about looks, finances, or many of the material things. i question. i open my mouth. But ultimately i need a man not afraid to take the lead with me. It is more about how He leads and how He makes me feel. i need to feel taken care of. i need to have certain deep cravings that are somewhat out of the norm...met. i have that inner mode to pamper and serve those i love. Not as a doormat..because i am spunky enough not to be walked over...but occasionally on..*grins* i can be a brat. But i prefer seeing the look of appreciation on a mans face as i cater to His wishes..and treat Him like a King. i am not a barbie...and not into the Ken types. i have to answer that in my opinion...a man needs to know He IS the MAN. And for me...it is way more important to have the intellect, and stimulation of emotion....more so than a great cock, and if i need a tongue and want it done right...i find a willing woman. *wicked smiles* c

p33c3y0 42M

7/24/2006 4:21 pm

can't i have the clark-kentish-type woman who tears off her business suit, goofy glasses and instantly becomes a bombshell brunette? just asking ...

p33c3y0 42M

7/24/2006 4:24 pm

oh and to what pierd said ... doesn't it seem a little gratuitous for *scientists* to say the *brain* is the biggest sex organ? they wish !!

p33c3y0 42M

7/27/2006 2:13 pm

did i say brunette specifically? well, you know, i ... er, had to pick one or another to complete the sentence right? i'm sure it means nothing at all.

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