It has got to be stopped  

IWantYou492 31M
5 posts
8/21/2005 8:29 pm

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9/3/2006 10:57 pm

It has got to be stopped

Okay another thing has been pissing me off on this site. I'm looking around in the local groups, seeing if there was anything new in them, and I'm hit by the picture of the moderator of one of the groups. Just as many men on this site have done, this person decided to put a picture of his penis as his main photo.

Right then and there I wished there was some way that I could spare myself the disgust. I mean come on guys, stop it with the dick pics. They are really getting on my nerves, mainly because there are way too many of them out there, and all of them seem to be posting in the local groups.

Now at the same initial feeling of disgust, I was also wondering the kind of reactions women have to those types of shots along with what kind of an impression it gives off when a lady is looking through trying to find someone. Do you look for that kind of pic on a profile, or does it make you automatically say 'next'?

Anyway I just wanted to get that off my chest. Also, I just want to say thanks to Danni for the encouragement, as in The ONLY comment I have gotten so far. At least someone is looking on.

panthergrl05 33F
3 posts
8/22/2005 9:51 pm

I totally agree with your rant. Alright people, yes, this is a sex and swingers site, but I think that the pics showcasing your penis' are for when you think you've made a connection or want to hook up with someone...Heck, perhaps they are even for the people in your network. But please, if they are the only physical feature about yourself that you find the least bit appealing, it's time for some life re-evaluation. Most of us want to put a face to the personality..not a dick. So in the future, put him away. We females may be horny but we aren't desperate.


CuriousOHVirgin 40F

8/23/2005 4:07 am

I couldnt have said it better myself Iwantyou and Panther. GRANTED us females have alot of cleavage, breast, ass and 'other' parts posted on here as well. but my opinion is if the guy that has contacted me can only show his dick or nothing at all..then I hold off on the face pic until we have chatted and I see what u are all about..

I am not looking for the hottest man/woman out there but i would still like to say hi to a face not a dick..if all goes well..I will see enough of that later

And u r welcome sweetie..this was an excellent topic! And welcome home!


rm_martinroxs6 43F

8/23/2005 7:24 am

I agree with ya'll tired of seeing a penis 1st. Would be nice to see a face or body or something else to go along with the penis.


shogun923 49M

8/27/2005 5:17 pm

Well I gotta say this...I'm not really discusted by all the dick pics, unless I get hit with one unexpectedly, like you did, but I would really prefer not to see them at all, but I sort of expect it to happen on a site like this. I'm a pretty modest guy...I do have a dick pic but I don't post it and I don't show it unless asked...and as far as women go, I honestly think they don't care to see that right off, I mean, they pretty much all look the same and a friend of mine (who is a girl) ance told me that she thought dicks where ugly and the only thing they where good for was the way they felt when they where inside her. Anyway, thats my take on it.

rm_grrralittle 55F

9/21/2006 4:51 pm

May be a little late to pipe in on this topic ... hope you get my reply ! I agree with most of what was said here ... while we are all hoping for good passion ... you can't stay in bed 24 7 ... well at least not for more then a few weeks .... and I've never once been able to pick out someone in a bar or meeting spot of any sort by looking at his penis ... I have to agree with you and Danni ... if all goes well will see plenty of that later ... thanks for the post I enjoyed reading it

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