Sex and Relationships  

HottNSpicy4U 37F
7 posts
7/29/2005 8:20 pm

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Sex and Relationships

I am creating this blog b/c I want some honest feedback from men and maybe even women. I have a profile posted on another website, more geared to dating. If I compare that profile to the profile I have on AdultFriendFinder, I get more responses to the profile listed on AdultFriendFinder, which has led me to the conclusion that men rather be in a purely physical relationship than to have a dating or serious relationship. It's kind of frustrating. Sure, I love sex and the thing that I want the most since I'm not in a relationship is to have the physical intimacy that other couples share BUT I can honestly say that I would rather have a relationship that has more to offer than just sex. Can anyone relate?

rm_hotmassage26 34M
1 post
7/29/2005 10:16 pm

I would disagree, I think you'll find that men are actually a lot like women. Some women aren't out for a relationship more than just friendship with a twist. I've seen it a lot. I don't partake because its just not my flavor. However, I also now that there are a lot of women the other way as well like yourself. Sex and intimacy are a very important part of peoples life and can tend to influence the way of which most people think and act. In fact a lot of decisions are made off of it sometimes which is where I believe that you get the physical relationship instead of dating or serious relationship. I can also say that the comfort felt with being close to someone is great. Then again sex is also great. Both together is even better.

pASSionwantd2 50M
1316 posts
7/29/2005 11:30 pm

Throw your Feeling's to them Quick!the one's that run Forget!the one's that stay near are clear ,they Know now what you Desire in which you will have pASSionate Fire. Just Have Fun that's the Name of the game.

rm_fleamonkey 38M
306 posts
9/6/2008 6:42 am

Many women are also just into the physical as well. Ive found many just do one night stands and ditch the guy. Its not as devastating to a man to be used for sex and tossed, but they still feel like she could of told him what she wanted up front.

Your definitely cute. Ive tried the vanilla sites also but never get as many dates as i do here. Ill be honest i also like the openness of the conversations from women here. Sex isn't taboo. Plus i can learn more about the women if they fill out the questionnaire on here. Than on any other date sites questionnaire.

Catowner 49M

7/25/2010 2:04 pm

I sympathise with you, Hott. I absolutely cannot enjoy sex with a woman unless we are both enjoying it.

There are reasons why you get more attention on this site than on a regular dating site. I checked out a regular dating site before coming on board here. This site has loads more members. That is not surprising. On a site like this, people feel that they can be more open about what they are really looking for.

The feeling I have about men generally, and especially younger men, is that they like to have a regular girlfriend, but that does not mean they want to be faithful to her. Sorry, but there it is.


gentleslowone 55M
24 posts
9/29/2011 7:52 pm

I have to agree about the openness issue.
Not that you avoid the complications that arise when two people have differing emotional needs. But it is easier to begin the process of talking, without the constraint of our culture's discomfort with talking about sex.

1HardDickinKC 39M
2 posts
10/1/2011 10:13 pm

Hey there! I saw that you viewed my profile and was hoping that you were interested in what you saw/read. Hope to hear back from you soon! Take care!

MsKitty918 30F

10/3/2011 4:50 am

I can definitely relate. I'm right there with ya... er, along side, I suppose. It's depressing to think that men are only really out there looking for a purely physical relationship, but I don't think that's the case. I think people (women included) just have a really hard time being themselves when dating, and that just causes problems in the long run. At least if you meet people on here, they're are more likely to just be themselves and let their desires out in the open (i.e. sex...). Society places really harsh restrictions on how we are supposed to behave, but what if we're all just sexual beings that need to express that part of ourselves? I'll be the first to admit that I don't know what "the deal" is or how to overcome it, but I just thought I'd throw in my $0.02...

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