Walking in VIRGIN territory....  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
5/31/2006 2:21 pm

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Walking in VIRGIN territory....

I remember when I lost it -- my virginity that is. The jury still out on my mind - LOL And yes, after the fact - I wish I could take back my cherry and give it to someone more deserving. I was only 16 - what the hell did I know??

He was 2 years older - not a virgin. But then again so few guys are by that age. I do remember him trying to make it special for me. His parents were out of town - there had been a Jr. Dance that night at convention center. So we were all dressed up. And seemed that if it was gonna happen - might as well be that night.

One of my best friends and her bf (my bf's good friend) came over to the house after the dance. We all had a few drinks - - and then we all went to whatever rooms we were to be in.

That night - there would be 2 less virgins in the world - - as my friend somehow lost hers too that night!

I remember he put Journey on - so that Open Arms would be playing - - sounds cheesy now, but then - well that was THE song. From that point everything happened so quickly...and before ya knew - it was gone forever. My cherry was no more. I was in the bathroom when my friend tapped on the door. We sat in the floor and cried. Way too young to be having sex.

My guy and had dated for almost a year and 1/2 ...but after that night - we were over in less than a month. Sex was all he wanted and at that point in my life..it was the last thing I wanted to do again. As for my friend and her guy - - they ended up married, have 3 wonderful girls and have been married for almost 18 years.

Living the life I now lead - I can't imagine having only had sex with just one guy. He got a virgin and kept her.

And that has me thinking about all the guys I've been with in my 21 years of sex (and 2 marriages)....I NEVER HAD A VIRGIN OF MY OWN!!

Am I the only one?? Of course, at my age now - I wouldn't want one.... but you would have thought in those first 5 years, I would have ran across at least one. Maybe that shows a little about the kind of guys I'm attracted to - at least at that age of my life. Guys were older and outgoing...and easy. LOL

I just think it's odd. Maybe I'm the only one who's never been with a virgin.... DAMN - - I meant to check that off my list of things to do. Then time got in the way.

Just thoughts to ponder......

docdirk 47M

5/31/2006 7:14 pm

I'm not sure, but I think I qualify as a renewed virgin... been so damn long I got the status back!!!

BTW, Journey was SO the band back then! But I lost my virginity to Bob Seger's We've Got Tonight.

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

HotTXpussy4U replies on 6/2/2006 8:04 am:
I've had he renewed virgin experience as well - - - went for years without during my first marriage. Boy was it fun to lose it the second time around...hmmmm, I think! Involved a beach and LOTS of Long Island Ice Teas!! LMAO

popmuse01 35F

5/31/2006 9:03 pm

lol virgins seem to be a passing phase. I got close once...ok 2 times...my man had only been with 2 women before me hehe.

If you still wana cross that virgin off your list I know a 26 year old who IS litterally a virgin!!!

I'm leaving the site end of March. To those who want to keep in touch, see blog for details.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 6/2/2006 8:05 am:
Awww, thank you for the info on th 26yr old - - - but I think my time has passed - - or is it my patience???? LOL - - definitely the latter! {=}

bipolybabe 54F

6/1/2006 6:27 am

In college, I attracted three or four virgins. Don't exactly know why they thought it was okay to have sex with me.

I'll link to this story from my blog 'cuz I just asked people about their first times.

Thanks for sharing!

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HotTXpussy4U replies on 6/2/2006 8:07 am:
Giving it to good people...that's why they chose you! Or did you get them drunk?? j/k

Thanks for the link - - - I hope people enjoy reading...! {=}

horny4770 60M
8158 posts
6/1/2006 12:32 pm

lol "I remember when I lost it " ... I was trying desperately to GIVE mine away! LOL I remember where, but not what was playing in the background...I was too afraid I'd do it wrong.

Then like a buttwipe, I carelessly took more than my share just for sport and then ended up falling for the last one...I married her...

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HotTXpussy4U replies on 6/2/2006 8:08 am:
I've talked about losing my "cherry"..but that's a whole other set of past blogs!! LOL - you'd have to read them to understand! roflmao

Glad you found the ONE for you!!! {=}

ReranBroodArret 36M
9 posts
6/1/2006 1:45 pm

Have you considered the possibility that you've been with a virgin who was lying about it?

You got me beat with Journey. Steve Perry is so much cooler than The Spin Doctors singing Two Princes. That's almost as embarrasing as my performance that night. Almost.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 6/2/2006 8:10 am:
I've thought about that - - but I know the ones I was with in my younger years - - well, I just know who they had been with - -so no luck there.

And if it's happened in the last 10 years....well, that would explain some of my "short" encounters now wouldn't it?? LOL

roflmao @ Spin Doctors!!!

gnr8nrg 45M

6/2/2006 8:57 am

Hi HotTX I was 18 when I lost mine and I was with a virgin a few years later. We were together for 2-3 months before having sex and then she wanted to all the time. I would have loved to have spent my life with her, but I was worried that she'd have to try others. The relationship didn't last, but my fond memories do. It was the deepest I've ever fallen in love.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 6/2/2006 3:06 pm:
You KNOW you make me swoon.....I wish I had been her!!! {=}

moo_nips 57F

6/3/2006 5:20 am

Have been thinking about my virginity

Waiting until the right thing comes along is important

So.. think i'll wait for the girl with the purple strapon {=}

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