True Colors  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
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12/7/2005 12:04 pm

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True Colors

I've heard that an animal won't attack until they are backed in a corner. Well I guess that is how he must have felt - as the attacks have started.

First attack was on the banking account - he lied to the right young girl and somehow managed to take a large bankroll of cash that wasn't his. He basically feels like I owe it to him - since I broke his heart. Apparently he decided the first large sum of money I gave him wasn't enough - so he stole from me. At first I was pissed, then hurt and now I am just like "He has to atone for his deeds to God, not me".

He's threatened to contest the divorce - somehow he has misunderstood people talking in his ear and somehow he thinks he has rights to MY stuff I had before we got married. He should talk to an attorney - he will see he gets nothing. We were only married 2 months and bought nothing and I gave him back every paycheck he ever put into the marriage. Stupid Stupid man - I wonder if he knows how uneducated he sounds when he makes these threats.

When it was all going down he couldn't understand why I wouldn't let him drive any cars in my name - did he think he would hurt my stuff (he asked). Did I think he would - no, but couldn't take a chance. Hence why I packed all of HIS crap (trust me on the crap description - see blog)and put it in a POD outside...just couldn't take a chance. And now that he has resorted to stealing money...he wonders why I would think I should protect my assets? Fuck's obvious I know him better than he knows himself.

I may have known that the marriage wasn't going to work - - but I didn't hate him. Hell, I find it hard to hate anyone. Hate is such a strong word. But now..... I think what I am feeling is hate - along with seeing his true colors.

2_4_play8 52M
6 posts
12/7/2005 8:22 pm

he sounds so much like my ex. They didn't get what they wanted from the relationship/marriage so they have become angry and wanted to try to bring everyone down to their level. In my case she was just angry with the world , becuse everything didnt go her way. Thank god that living nightmere is over. I really hope this divorce does not turn in to a neverending delima for you. We all make bad dececions in life and have to learn to over come them. Im sure it will be easy for you. I understand the feeling of hate, I once felt that way once, but no longer wast my time thinking about it. It will just take time. Just keep talking to get it off your mind it helps.

mygmyg 59M

12/8/2005 9:39 am

HOT TX, if he took money from an account at a bank that he was not authorized to have access to, you should address this with the bank manager, the bank is responsible for protecting your accounts from this !! especially if you have not added him to the account, or have it in writing that he is not to have access to your funds!!

If he contests the divorce, make sure that you bring documentation of his "unauthorized" withdrawal to your lawyer, the court should attempt to remedy this situation, and this could help in his decision not to contest the divorce, leverage this "Pilfering" for all it is worth!!

HotTXpussy4U 48F

12/8/2005 10:57 am

Thanks for the info Mygmyg. I should have just done it like I did my first marriage, oh so long ago, and kept all accounts seperate. But I believed this was "the one" he was on the account. The only thing that I can prove are the checks he sent off for bills with his signature and that he then withdrew all the money - so they wouldn't clear. I've fixed all that and the bank closed the account. I even had limits put on his ATM - but he somehow managed to sweet talk someone to uping it to $2000 day. He now has plenty of money and all of his what is left to contest. He entered the marriage with zero dollars to his name - - and now he's a good chunk wealthier.

I've resolved to say - it's just money. He has to answer for stealing money that wasn't his to use...he probably doesn't consider it a sin..but someone higher up does.

Next time - well, I don't even want to think about next time. Check me 10 years from now. That seems to be my running total between marriages..LMAO

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