The Proposition....Part 3 - Ignored  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
12/12/2005 2:37 pm

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The Proposition....Part 3 - Ignored


Don't you hate it when you have all build-up, just to be let down??

Well if you read my blog on Losing my Blackberry, you know I spent the night alone.

But it wasn't for my lack in effort to try!!!

So, after heading to the place where I played pool..and a few more shots and a beer or two. I sent him an email (from my now lost blackberry) telling him we were shooting pool, he should come join. Waited a bit, no response. Being that I was drinking (not yet drunk dialing - but getting closer)..I sent it again. Finally, he responded with "having dinner with client, trying to get our $6m". True, we want our money - but I was in a teasing mood....it happens sometimes when I drink. LOL

Staying out of email and moving to text message (so company can't trace what I say).. I sent him a text saying "Hmmmm, $6m or ME.. I know which one I would choose". Again, no response. Now I know how client dinners go...and we live on our blackberry's (well I did, until I lost mine - can you tell I'm still miffed?)..I know it's no big deal to send messages. If they can't answer right away..just give them time. At this point - it had been a few hours since I first sent him the invited to come play pool. Was starting to get a little annoyed - HADN'T HE BEEN THE ONE TO START ALL THIS STUFF IN THE FIRST PLACE? So, since I was drinking (add a few more shots to the list by this time - I think this is when the drunk dialing began)... I sent him a text saying "You KNOW, if there was ever going to be a night, tonight is the night. I feel good, I'm happy and think I could see things happening".

Now granted - I can only assume that is what I wrote, as I have no way to look it up to confirm it...but I know that is what I meant to write. By this time it is around 11:30...so I know his meeting should have been done. Well, if you think I heard back from him (before I lost my blackberry)...well you would be wrong. BECAUSE, if I had - I would have come straight back to hotel at midnight when we finished playing pool. Instead of heading out to go dancing. And if he had called - I'D STILL HAVE MY DAMN BLACKBERRY. LOL

I was pretty much hung over much of the day yesterday, he never called. I have checked my voicemail - nothing. I did finally get some answers today on some work email crap... but nothing in the way of what we were all thinking might happen.

So, I'm not pissed, nor angry or scorned. But I am past the moment. My life will go on, and I will have sex again. But it won't be with him. I figure if fate has a way of putting us on the paths - then my path is to be without that memory. I will not sit and wonder what it would have been like, cuz it was never meant to be.

He just doesn't know what a good thing he passed up...even if it was for just one night.

rm_lds1026 37M
4 posts
12/12/2005 2:51 pm

hey thats to bad but if you in jacksonville sometime hit me up


funtoplay1973 44M
69 posts
12/12/2005 11:02 pm

I think we've all been there. Doesn't matter how beautiful or "perfect" we are (or aren't) it happens. Sometimes it is just plain logistics, and sometimes it is more personal. But that doesn't mean it isn't painful. As one who has been stood up myself... Next!


HotTXpussy4U 48F

12/13/2005 9:02 am

funtoplay1973
You know..if it hadn't have been for you - I would have never continued with the story (which has not changed as of today). I guess I never really looked at is as "stood up"...since we never made real plans to meet. But at least now, for all things going through my head - I know his proposition was just that, a proposition. And now that I have had time to think about (funny how things work out)..I'm not that interested. Life is complicated as it is...and to add someone I work with into the mix, lord - who has time? LOL

I'll just stick the cool guys I meet on here..seems much safer. Believe it or not.

Smiles - HotTx


gnr8nrg 46M

12/13/2005 4:02 pm

Hi Hot TX, I'm finally caught up and I had a similar experience. A woman contacted me on another site and left me her number and email. I called her and we chatted for some time. She had a web cam and started taking off her clothes. She did this after finding out I was on AdultFriendFinder more than match. She wanted to meet right away, but had plans for the next two evenings. I worked the two after that and we both had stuff everyday but Wednesday. We decided she'd call me after her meeting. She had more plans and said we'll meet later. I got busy with my day and then she wanted to meet right at that moment. I couldn't because I was busy so we made plans for before her dinner date. After that fell through I'd given up and was no longer interested. She called a couple of times when I wasn't busy, but I no longer wanted to meet her. As a kid, my brother said if a woman wants you NOW, you better go now because she won't give you another chance. I think it can work both ways. Sorry it didn't work out with him, but like you said above the cool and funner people I think are in Blogland.


Plano69 54M

12/13/2005 4:54 pm

Still, he owed you a message sooner than he did...


HotTXpussy4U 48F

12/14/2005 11:23 am

Just so you know - - - still no contact! Which is fine - since I have moved on. But like all men I know -- when the prospect of not getting "any" is knocking at the door (I'm leaving New Orleans after this weekend)..I bet he comes knocking.

Too bad I won't answer...... As I have moved on!!


rm_Easein2it 51M

1/10/2006 4:59 pm

Hot, an opportunity lost on his behalf that may just haunt his memory for quite sometime!


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