Quick Reply or Just Delete??  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
8/31/2006 9:28 pm

Last Read:
9/24/2006 8:35 am

Quick Reply or Just Delete??

Simple Poll (which I don't do)...but I'm curious you GUYS.... when you send an email to a girl. And she reads it and is NOT interested in communicating with you... Which way do you want us to handle it??

If you pick "Quick Reply" - Then that means you can't email her AGAIN trying to convince her she made a hasty decision (Damn that pisses me off).

If You pick "Just Delete" - Then that means you can't email her again in a few days or week asking her why she didn't respond.

Because in the end - other than we do reply to you...those are our options..and no matter which one we choose to do....We seem to get griped at.

So I live it to ya'll how to decide. Most votes win and I will make sure I follow as you decide.
Quick Reply - No matter what the reason is
Just Hit DELETE and move on down the road


jrb6955 58M

9/1/2006 5:55 am

My vote was for the Quick Reply. I would rather know that she is not interested, rather than have to guess and speculate. Given the gross imbalance of men to women on this site, it is my understanding that many women receive rather large volumes of emails on a daily basis. It is just as probable, from the man's perspective, that his email may have been overlooked, as it is that the woman is not interested. When I was actively emailing women on this site, I always preferred the knowledge which came from receiving the response over being left in the dark. But that is just me; I am the curious type, aways seeking out the answers.


buddhamike 106M
7006 posts
9/1/2006 9:01 am

Just delete. Any one who isn't mature enough to understand what that means isn't going to appreciate the quick reply any way.


HotTXpussy4U 48F

9/1/2006 9:33 am

Interesting....12 hours into the post - and it is TIED!!

No wonder women stay confused on how to make a man happy!!

Thanks for the votes and comments so far.......

{=}


aries_flames 48F

9/1/2006 10:21 am

I'm watching the results of this too. I may join you and act accordingly with the results of this poll!

Good idea HotTX (as usual)!


ZZ_Todd 59M

9/1/2006 11:26 am

I don't send shot-gun type emails out, but if I did, I think it would be best to just get the quick reply. I'm thinking that most guys who don't get any reply just start assuming that the woman just hasn't gotten around to their message yet, so they send another, and another... and all that does I suppose is just piss the woman off. Yep... if there's no interest, just say so. No doubt they're sending the same message to a hundred others, so they won't be too disturbed to get an automatic reply.


HotTXpussy4U 48F

9/1/2006 1:35 pm

And you know I'm cool with the Quick Reply - - IF THEY WOULD JUST GIVE ME AN OPTION OF "Not Interested".....why do I have to pick a reason?? Hmmmm, wonder if I said that loud enough for the AdultFriendFinder Gods to hear me??

New Options they could give us:
You Scare The Hell Out Of Me
You Are Just Gross Man
Take A Bath and We Will See
I don't reply to CockShot-Only Pics
No Teeth - No Reply

Just to name a few.....


rm_midwest4ta 60M

9/1/2006 2:41 pm

Delete. The guys have the option "not" to send an email, so the ladies should have the option to "not respond".


docdirk 47M

9/1/2006 6:34 pm

Wait a minute... you mean I can actually e-mail the girls here?!?!?

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...


HotTXpussy4U replies on 9/1/2006 8:15 pm:
Does that mean I should post some of YOUR emails???? Just to prove a point??

HotTXpussy4U 48F

9/1/2006 8:20 pm

Well 24 hours later - - - and it's a One-Sided "victory" for "Quick Reply"

So I will do just that - - BUT I reserve the right to be pissy if they email me and say "I might be older but I have the heart of a young guy...come on give me a try".....

THANKS for all the votes and comments - it has been fun. I will continue to keep a watch.....

Smiles - HotTx {=}


rm_babyboomer26 66M
898 posts
9/1/2006 9:32 pm

I don't know how I'd handle that. I've never had anyone not interested.

Boomer


jrb6955 58M

9/1/2006 9:49 pm

    Quoting HotTXpussy4U:
    And you know I'm cool with the Quick Reply - - IF THEY WOULD JUST GIVE ME AN OPTION OF "Not Interested".....why do I have to pick a reason?? Hmmmm, wonder if I said that loud enough for the AdultFriendFinder Gods to hear me??

    New Options they could give us:
    You Scare The Hell Out Of Me
    You Are Just Gross Man
    Take A Bath and We Will See
    I don't reply to CockShot-Only Pics
    No Teeth - No Reply

    Just to name a few.....
There is also the ever popular "I don't date outside my own species."


Supervy_Sage 50M

9/2/2006 2:36 am

I like quick reply. It can either say, "No thanks not interested" or "Fuck off freak!" Either works, and I will know that she is not interested.

I have yet to get the "Fuck of Freak!" reply, and hope that I will never.

I did get:
"I'm trying to keep it real" - What does that mean?
"Trying to find myself at the moment" - Can you loose yourself? Guess so.

The Super Pervy Sage


HotTXpussy4U 48F

9/2/2006 11:13 am

SO I Took the poll results and used one of these options that is made available to me:

Quick Reply: Choose an optional quick reply I'm looking for someone more experienced. Sorry, I'm too busy to respond to you personally. I don't respond to profiles with erotic photos. I don't think our personalities match. I respond only to profiles with photos. I'm only interested in single men. I'm only interested in single women. I'm only interested in couples. I don't think the chemistry is there. I'm taking a break from men. I'm taking a break from women. I think we're looking for different things. We have some kinks in common. I'll get back to you. I'm looking for someone younger. I don't think we share the same kinks. I'm looking for someone older. I'm looking for a different physical type. Sorry, I'm not interested in gay or bi men. I just started a new relationship. I'm looking for a Sub. I'm looking for a Dom. I'm not ready to get serious. I'm looking for a serious relationship. I don't play as rough as you. I prefer local relationships. I'm not seeing new people right now. Thank you but I am not interested. I don't do "discreet" relationships.
This is the one I chose for a 47 yr old man (too old for me) and who also lives in CALIFORNIA! His Title to his email "Let me fly you to L.A. - Would love to pamper you" - And yes, that was pretty much all of his email.

So I picked:
Subject: RE: I prefer local relationships.


This morning I have this in my email!!!!!!!!!!!

"That is truly too bad...I would make it well worth your time and efforts....please reconsider"

THIS IS WHY I JUST HIT DELETE - -

MAKES ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


HotTXpussy4U 48F

9/2/2006 11:25 am

And this was my reply - - Yes, I replied because it put me in a "mood" and it was deserved..lol

" Please refer to my recent blog post/poll....you will find the link on my profile...or you can click here to enter.

Quick Reply or Just Delete?

Do you realize I make more than most people do in this world....what makes you think I need to be pampered and take care of?

I told you I only wanted local relationships - - but if you had REALLY read my profile, you would also find that you are out of my age range.

Would you have prefered I used "I prefer someone younger"? Would you still have emailed - even though I made it clear I wasn't interested?

You are why women just hit DELETE...because the answer "no" is not acceptable....

Have a great day...and weekend.

I'm not a horrible person - I'm just not interested...

Which I said the first time.


menurpanties 46M

9/5/2006 12:04 am

why sit around and wait send somone else an application


GraspCrownRusts 46M
780 posts
9/5/2006 10:56 am

Isn't it funny how a simple "not interested"-type response invites a rebuttal?

You: "I'm sorry, I'm just not interested."

Them: "Yeah, but..."

I voted for the "delete" button option for the above reason...lol


rm_spructer 50M

9/8/2006 3:34 pm

I like a quick reply, because I get a chance to wish them luck on their serch, since I don't seem to have what they are after.


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