Liar Liar....Pants on Fire...  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
3/15/2006 3:11 pm

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3/17/2006 7:51 am

Liar Liar....Pants on Fire...

Well yes, it is a phrase from our childhood. But when people act like children..then it is fitting.

YES - it's about dating... AGAIN!!!

I guess I don't get it.. I try to honest and forthright in my profile. What I am looking for..what I am NOT looking for. Who I am, what I look like, my age..

I guess I'm the sucker here - because I believe pretty much what a profile says. Do I believe the pics?? Not always...but the stat info..yes. Like I said, I'm the fool.

Why anyone needs to lie about their age on his site is beyond me. There is such a wide, diverse and array of people on this site - everyone can find someone that fits their general "want" criteria.

I "want" someone about 5 years younger to about 5 years older than me. I think that's the norm for most people. I've dated/gone out with as young as 24 - 48 in the past I do keep my eyes open for guys of all ages... I just have my preferences - that's all.

So - when I questioned this "possible" date..about his age (amoung a few other red flag issues)..all were answered except for the age. Of course HUGE Red Flag then. With the information I knew about him..I went and checked him out - criminal, sexual and driving. A girl does have to be safe..and I want to know if I am meeting a convicted or whatnot.

When I pulled up his DL - viola' 10 years older than his profile. It's not the age (well, kinda is for me)..but that when I gave him a chance to fess up..NOTHING. Not until I informed him of my new found information.

So - I have to tell you the excuse...

"Mr bro started AdultFriendFinder and then left overseas so I took over. So those are his stats. I've tried changing it, even emailed AdultFriendFinder but I don't want to start a new screen name, so it remains." "Is there anything else you want to know?"

No - - I think you have said plenty. None of which I can believe.

We all know you can't change your gender or ID - - that's it. As far as I can tell, everything else is at our disposal to do as we want.

In some cases, they lie...

And you would think by now - those that want to meet me...if you screw it up (lies, alcohol, parking, stood-up)...I'm gonna blog about it!!!

At least this time.. I found out BEFORE the date!!

meerkittykat 42F

3/15/2006 4:38 pm

Well...and it's that kinda guy who thinks that, despite the lies he told to get you to this point, his "irrestiible charm, dastardly good looks and monster cock" <cough> will make your change your mind about his inability to tell the truth.

These kinda guys are a dime a dozen, and sadly, there are women who, despite knowing he's a skeeze, fall for it and forgive 'em.


Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
3/15/2006 4:43 pm

ah the sibling/friend account! the most annoying thing ever! I hate that and it annoys me to no end. I want to strangle these people, just open your own frickin account, use your own damn picture, and put up your own stats! Dating sites would be so much easier if they made it harder to lie, harder to put up fake information. There has to be away to keep men from masquarding as women, to keep spam out and bots!

feathertouch71 45M
49 posts
3/15/2006 4:45 pm

Hi HotTX,
Fair play to you for exposing this guy and putting it in a blog, as far as i'm concerned liars and cheats get what they deserve!!!!!,
good for you for what you have done, keep smiling, take care xx

oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
3/15/2006 5:14 pm

These are the kinds of people that give the rest of us a bad . I don't see how they think that the person they are contacting won't find out. Stupid.

docdirk 47M

3/15/2006 5:41 pm

Sometimes, days, seemingly weeks go by without me seeing any new account that appears in any way believable. This site is used so as fishing expeditions by other sites looking to draw suckers over to their "personal" web page. (Available for a nominal fee.) Then, there are the instances you describe - false ages, body types, who knows what else.

If it weren't for the blogs, I'd spend so little time on this site...

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/15/2006 9:42 pm

Thank You All for the support!! People have asked me in the past if I blog about all my dates. I don't really - just the bad ones. They are the funniest/oddest/weirdest stories and I just can't help myself. I have to let the people know....their bad dates are not the only ones!!!

gnr8nrg 45M

3/15/2006 11:42 pm

Hi HotTX I don't lie here at all. It's probably why it hasn't worked out as well as I would have thought. My cousin is on another dating site, and I've ripped into him about lying about himself. He says the women do it too so he does. I explained to him that an excuse just keeps the lying going. He even told me his picture wasn't him but it looked more like him than his pictures did. ARRRGGGHHHH! I told him to stay away from this site, because it won't work for him. He doesn't go down on women, and I told him that a woman will know just from a conversation with him. I'm evil, but I don't want anyone I know messing it up for the rest of us who are honest.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/17/2006 7:51 am

OMG - - that's horrible!! I have hope that for every bad one there are 10 good ones out there... RIGHT GUYS?? {=}

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