Is it just ME??  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
3/10/2006 10:07 am

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3/16/2006 8:31 am

Is it just ME??

I don't know.. but lately - something is just not right.

Yes - it's about dating....again.


I just know over the past month - I've put myself out there. Trying to meet new people, experience new things..just live a little.

I try not to ask for much:

1. Be who you are on your Profile
2. Dress like you want to impress (I always do)
3. If you make a date, keep it
4. If you break the date - I'm gonna BLOG about it!
5. Be considerate

Oh hell, there are probably tons of other rules - - I know some that I just chat with would say I have many. Maybe I do - - I think the guy should call the girl, I think that HE should pick the place, consideration must be given to distance apart (is there a real chance it will ever happen more than once?).

I don't just want one night - I admit it. I like the thought of weekends together, waking up and cooking breakfast (or dinner, if you just got out of the bedroom)..meeting up for a movie, or a game of pool. You know - - DATING.

Just doesn't seem like I am asking for that much....maybe I should go back to hanging in bars? LOL

But then I'd miss all my bloglovers..and I just couldn't have that now, could I?

{=} HotTx

TrapsTomesSteed 42M
202 posts
3/10/2006 10:19 am

Items 1 and 3 are definitely big pet peeves. They kinda go hand in hand, too. I mean, it's really no shocker that someone who lies about their profile is going to stand someone up to avoid the truth. Anyway, it's not just you.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/10/2006 10:38 am

I'm glad I am not alone - we can just spend our nights together... how's that

gnr8nrg 45M

3/10/2006 11:57 am

Hi HotTX One night stands I can get without this site. I first came on wanting something between that and a girlfriend. I like some strings, just not chains. It's not you and it's okay to ask them what they want. If it's not what you want, then walk. Unfortunately people lie, so it does make it more difficult. I had a woman I met in a bar tell me she wanted a "fuck buddy" for a couple of months before she moved and I was happy to ablige. Honesty IS the best policy.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/10/2006 2:57 pm

Maybe a little rope instead? Mmmm, though I am more partial to scarfs!!! And I honestly think there is someone out there for me....he just happens to live in CA...damn it!

SweeTexasGal 64F
1 post
3/10/2006 3:33 pm

You go girl! Tell 'em like it is!!!!!!

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/10/2006 3:48 pm

Welcome to Blogland SweeTexasGal - - you boys be nice to her - she's a dear friend!! Smiles and Kisses - - K

rm_bessamemucho 47M
229 posts
3/10/2006 6:45 pm

I am glad I came across your cam tonight... You are a delight and agree immensly with your blog.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/10/2006 10:28 pm

I happy to see that you have followed from cam to here... WELCOME. I do hope you will stay in touch {=}

Yes - I do cam from time to time. Tonight was a gift to a "friend" Will be lookin for ya next time Smiles - HotTx

ferreto20 58M

3/11/2006 12:03 am

Hi HotTX,

These guys who fail to turn up are crazy!!!!

I've only had 1 date from this site and apart from item 4 I was everything else. It seems as though you Americans are more liberal and likely to meet up. In 12 months on this site my first date was Feb 06, a cool experience! If I make a date i'd always turn up...respect the woman guys....

Its a pity i'm over the pond as i would love to wine and dine you

Take care

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/11/2006 12:51 am

If you ever decide to fly the Friendly Skies and head to better look me up! More liberal? or in my case, nuts! LOL -

CronyGipsyVibex 46M

3/11/2006 3:10 am

If only I had the chance....

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/11/2006 9:47 am

There is always hope

rm_spructer 50M

3/11/2006 1:50 pm

I think what you say is good. I don't think anyone should just jump into bed. Where is the romance, where is the fun of getting to know your partner, I know that if you put yourself out there you might get hurt or disappointed. But you can't give up your wants because there are a few bad people out there.
With a profile like yours and how sexy you look I would say that those guy are just stupid!

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
3/12/2006 1:32 am

whatya mean rules to dating? Damn! just kiddin'

you just keep blogging so I can keep readin' and looking at your pictures, like the new ones by the way. very nice!

whos your friend? hubba hubba

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/12/2006 10:33 am

They are stupid - wait until you read the next blog..LOL - - But I keep trying...Thanks for the kind words!{=}

thanks for visiting my blogs and my pics ...glad you like. My friends are a hoot...I will tell them you asked - Smiles - HotTx

fictionfact 46M
7 posts
3/15/2006 4:46 pm

Its nice to see someone, who is not ashamed, to admit the RULES they have about dating. These are the little things that allow each of us to know, I am me, at the same time it proves, our own insecurities. I believe if, it is meant to be, it will. Blog me if you want, it really does'nt matter to me, at the same time understand this,new platform, you have learned to hide behind, is no different than the person who you thought you were, at the bar, is'nt it? Continue with yor new found joy, always be you, no one can be. enjoyed your blog.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/16/2006 8:31 am

Thank you for the well wishes and the insight. "No Regrets" is what I say...smiles - HotTx

fictionfact 46M
7 posts
3/24/2006 12:49 am

Sorry I have taken, as long as I have to reply. I am truely a beginer at the whole computer thing. Hell i'll be honest I just tripped over the fact you posted any reply.(always knew I wasn't the quickest?...)Anyway I find myself curious, as the member of this site I'm limited to the can and can'ts. I'm mearly looking for a someone to help me pass time,enjoy things I may of over looked. Ball is in your court, it is your choice. Will try to check after work friday. later

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