I Followed "The Rules" and still got Blamed..  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
3/28/2006 9:00 am

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I Followed "The Rules" and still got Blamed..

Ya know, I get it. I get that we are all on here, looking for whatever it is that we are. We have our own guidelines about what is acceptable what is not. I think I have a long list of my own..so I am willing to follow others.

In the case of emails...I think my profile pretty well says what I expect and what it will take for me to respond. So when I get an email that list what their "rules" are....I think I play fair.

Apparently - Some How - WFT? I said something to offend this guy....and as I read - I guess, I just don't see it.

I've changed the name to protect..but, trust me - I thought about it.

Here is our entire email conversation in the past 24 hours or so:

For what it's worth - I don't recall complaining about anything - just stating that I followed "the rules". Was only teasing and flirting (Hence the LOL's)

Too bad you couldn't tell the difference.

Happy Travels

> Sender: 1
> To: HotTXpussy4U
> Date: Mar 28, 2006 8:29 AM EST
> > ---------------------------------------------------
> Sorry, but I am not interested in ladies that complain...All you had to say was "nice pics, would love to see a face pic as well" as opposed to complaining...that is a huge red flag...so good luck with the rest...
> > Sender: HotTXpussy4U
> > To: 1
> > Date: Mar 27, 2006 11:20 PM EST
> >
> > > Hi S,
> >
> > Well I have been battling the tanning bed for 2 hours, and only have 12 of 24 bulbs replaced..good grief. Yes, there are times when I need a "honey" to help me out with things..LOL
> >
> > Tsk Tsk... seems to me I played by the rules and still got ripped off... shame shame. I know my reply was sincere...since all my replies are. But dang - I didn't see a face pic with your second email.
> >
> > Interesting.....
> >
> > Smiles - Kim
> >
> >
> > ---------------------------------------------------
> > > Sender: 1
> > > To: HotTXpussy4U
> > > Date: Mar 27, 2006 9:27 PM EST
> > >
> > > > ---------------------------------------------------
> > >
> > > HI Kim,
> > >
> > > Thanks for the reply...Sorry to say that about 90% of the women's ads are fake...no matter what they write, so you can't go by that...anyway, you can find me as w### on ### messenger if you want to chat.
> > >
> > >
> > > S
> > > > Sender: HotTXpussy4U
> > > > To: 1
> > > > Date: Mar 27, 2006 9:16 PM EST
> > > >
> > > > > Hi S,
> > > >
> > > > Hmmm, "sincere reply"....goodness, so much pressure! LOL - teasing. I totally understand. But I state on my profile that I was a REAL person - - so now you have me wondering...did you email me because of the pic's or the profile??
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > Where in the Metroplex are you moving to? At some point in my life, I think I've lived on both sides. Currently I live about 30 miles south of FTW. Therefore, I commute daily to downtown for work. WHEN I am not working on the road in some disaster area. That does keep me busy.
> > > >
> > > > So - what else? What could you possibly want to know about me that I don't mention in my profile or [blog my] ? Well, I do hope that you will write again, so I can discover what's in your thought processes. Or in other words "pick your brain"..LOL
> > > >
> > > > Have a great evening.. I'm off to change the bulbs in the tanning bed. My first time - so should prove interesting...LOL
> > > >
> > > > Smiles,
> > > > Kim
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > ---------------------------------------------------
> > > > > Sender: 1
> > > > > To: HotTXpussy4U
> > > > > Date: Mar 27, 2006 9:00 PM EST
> > > > >
> > > > > Hello,
> > > > >
> > > > > I’m S, a corporate exec relo'g to DFW….40, 6’, 180, and in fantastic shape…with pics if I receive a sincere reply . Sorry, but waayyyy too many fake ads on this system. Very adventurous and orally aggressive in the bedroom. Love to tease, please, and play for hours, with stamina and experience to match. Single, successful, with no baggage.
> > > > >
> > > > > S---------------------------------------------------
> > > >

SO - WHAT exactly did I do wrong here? Anything to deserve such a tacky response?

Oh well, we know there is another to replace him....but I pretty much consider myself a nice person, definitely grounded, great career, family and friends all around..... but somehow - I complain? Is that the best he can come up with?? The dude obviously has no clue about me - and never will!


HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/28/2006 9:24 am

AND - Just for the record of telling the entire story.. Here is his response...and mine:

To: 1
Date: Mar 28, 2006 11:21 AM EST
Subject: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: RE: intriguing..relo'g to DFW

> Sorry, I don't correspond with someone who doesn't know how to relax and live a little. Lighten-up, loosen the tie. I need someone who is more assertive and less cynical.
And if you are not into flirting and some teasing - - well then, you truly wouldn't understand the art of seduction.

> Sender: 1
> To: HotTXpussy4U
> Date: Mar 28, 2006 11:12 AM EST
> > ---------------------------------------------------Well, go back and reread your last reply...especially last two sentences...and since I do not KNOW you...how else could I read that? I am not here for flirting and teasing...all the women do that...they must not have anything else to do...or that is just entertainment for them. I only chat with a lady I intend to actually meet...

HotTXpussy4U 48F

3/28/2006 9:30 am

FINAL CHAPTER: (as he has been blocked)... but for all of those reading who are on HIS side: His response should please you. I do realize everyone had an opinion..and to each their own. But if you ask me - he's in the wrong....

YOu're funny..and apparently completely full of shit...you have been here for quite a while if you keep signing up...which shows that you are not serious in the least, other than playing on a line...but if that is your life...must be quite pathetic...I could tell from your first email...you must really be a disappointment in the bedroom..or you would not need an ad anymore..lololo...what a ditz!!..lolo


bluegirl39 49F

3/28/2006 10:03 am

well that was a nice guy? not...no problem girls out number the men here 30 to 1...you got another 29 guys to check out...best of luck..ps I would met any guy without a face shot and learned to web cam as well..no photo means they are hidding something...hugs to you..from another real lady

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:16 pm:
Well who knows if I ever would have met him - - I, like you, do require a face pic..and I'd prefer to see them on cam - - just to be sure. Thanks for the hug!!

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:16 pm:
Well who knows if I ever would have met him - - I, like you, do require a face pic..and I'd prefer to see them on cam - - just to be sure. Thanks for the hug!!

hazel_eyed_devil 35F

3/28/2006 10:14 am

I can't believe this guy was serious! Thankfully, I haven't had anyone like that come to me. My heart goes out to you, Sweetie.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:17 pm:
I can say that out of the 100's of emails I get each month - that was my first email like that...kinda threw me for a loop. So, of course, I BLOG ABOUT IT. LOL Best Wishes!!

Seriously_Real 48M

3/28/2006 10:14 am

I am so fucking embarassed by my gender sometimes....


Keep on, sweetie. Keep on.


HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:20 pm:
Don't be - - It's comments like yours that make it all worth while, knowing that some guys do "get it"... Smiles

dandy6912000 60M/59F
3383 posts
3/28/2006 10:17 am

No need to blame yourself for the ways it happens, it the internet and with it a world of its own. I guess some think it is a site that we are all desperate to hook up and carry no values. So sort it out and carry on is what I say. Met to many good people here to conplain, and the good still out wieghs the bad .
Have a good day

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:22 pm:
The Good will always prevail....at least they do in the movies..LOL Thanks for stopping by! Smiles

CronyGipsyVibex 46M

3/28/2006 10:17 am

Although you ARE confusing and elusive sometimes, my investigative skills have revealed you've done nothing wrong. It appears he may just be bipolar. Which is very very possible these days. Stay clear of those!

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:26 pm:
Yes Sweetie - I know.. I need to make more of an effort on some things! And those that are special....they get special attention. This guy - this blog may be the MOST attention he ever gets. Yes Sir Officer, I will stay clear! {=}

popmuse01 35F

3/28/2006 10:43 am

I say he's just a jerk...you will find them here sadly to say. I've been here almost a year and have talked with my fair share of guys who turn out to be idiots or just not all there in the brains and blood department

bluegirl39 is right...there are many other guys out there who ARE worth talking to and who know that even though this is the net, manners are important!

I'm leaving the site end of March. To those who want to keep in touch, see blog for details.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:28 pm:
Well if you want to read funny/odd stories about some of my "dates"...my blog is filled with them. Not that ALL dates are bad...but the bad ones are the funny ones to write about. And we girls will just stand our ground until the "right" one(s) come along.

rm_POODAH4 40M
5 posts
3/28/2006 10:56 am

Reminds me of the time I was invited for a Sunday afternoon rendevouz and it ended up being a set-up by the soon to be ex husband to prove she cheated on him.

Can't be too careful, no matter how real it seems.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:31 pm:
OMG -- now that would freak me out!! I try to be as safe as possible...I don't want to be a hermit in my home. Thanks for posting and stopping by.

campfirecozy 66M

3/28/2006 10:56 am

I'm guessing...but I believe this guy's expectation of a sincere reply would have been for you to give him dates and times when he could apply his "very adventurous and orally aggressive in the bedroom" activities. It sounds as if this individual has been burned before due to false/fake profiles and has his defenses set to a level that may make it difficult to trust anyone. That happens. It is sad. Move on, consider it a learning experience.


HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:34 pm:
You know - I think you might have something there! Very wise you are...I'm so glad you stopped by! {=}

Lesson learned - AGAIN.. roflmao

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
3/28/2006 11:04 am

ahhh, well,....ok....ummmmm


HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:36 pm:
As many of the stories as you have read of mine - - - you know I couldn't make this stuff up..LOL - I have the darnedest luck! Kisses {=} {=}

Darkpassion 57F

3/28/2006 11:18 am

People I hear this story so often from both sides. You know what amazes me, that you keep replying to them. If something offends you in the first email go with your instincts and just don't grace them with a reply. These type of people enjoy your anger, infact they thrive on it. There are more than enough nice people to chat with on here, don't waste your time with losers.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:42 pm:
Well - my competitive nature took over...I love a good challenge. And with someone like him - who obviously thinks he's "all that".. I just had to try and take him down a notch or two. I do appreciate your post - it's a good message for all those that read it!!!

Fletch8491 50M

3/28/2006 11:29 am

This guy apparently has no sense of humor and therefore is so not worth it. Hard to admit to being included in his gender and species. Keep on flirting and teasing....that is the true art!

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:44 pm:
And it's an artform I intend to perfect.... bet you would let me tease and flirt with you... {=}

gnr8nrg 45M

3/28/2006 11:44 am

Hi HotTX Sure fake profiles can be a pain, but it's not baggage you drag around with you. It just sounds like he's bitter and unfortunatley he took it out on you. Next

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:49 pm:
Baby, how many times have we both yelled "NEXT" on this site??? LMAO Don't you know - I'm just waiting for you?

saddletrampsk 54F

3/28/2006 11:56 am

another AdultFriendFinder..Asshole Fucking Fucktard..member..sorry you had to come in contact with him..

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:51 pm:
As gnr8nrg said it best - NEXT!!! Thanks for posting!!!

tazzerman2000 58M
18960 posts
3/28/2006 12:01 pm

No reason to blame yourself. This guy obviously wasn't even reading your emails!! What a dufus. You were sweet, sincere, funny, open. He started the whole thread off in a completely negative way. Take comfort in the fact that this idiot ain't going to be getting 'much' if ya know what I mean.. Move on and hold your head high -tm

These blogs are only fun if you LEAVE comments!!!

Please visit my blog tazzerman2000

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 3:55 pm:
Thank You Thank You for the saying such nice things.. I am - I am a really nice person. My head is so high right now - I could drown if it rained.

2haveagoodtime3 46M
4 posts
3/28/2006 12:26 pm

I love your blog! The one real problem is I cant get any work done because I am looking at your BLOG!!!
This dude is obviously a closet monosexual...he loves himself way too much!!!

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 4:00 pm:
I knew I felt like someone was watching me all day! I'm very happy I can help entertain you...and even more happy that you want to stay and read on. {=}

nevertootall4u 53M

3/28/2006 2:15 pm

KIM, clearly he was NOT playing by any rules. this is an "adult" site, but U would be very surprised sometimes. not worth another moment of your time. me on the other hand (or is it two hands) PS< DISNEY WORLD is still waiting for U. (and so am . DEAN

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/28/2006 4:04 pm:
Your right - not another moment of my time will be spent on him. I just found the whole back-and-forth thing just too funny not to post! You better keep and eye on Mickey..I hear he's been putting his tail in places it doesn't belong.. LOL

bigbear1961 55M
3 posts
3/28/2006 7:49 pm

I had exchanged a couple of e-mails with you in the past ,and found you be genuine, sincere, and very classy. I would still love the chance to meet you next time i am working in the Dallas area.
Don't give that clown another thought, he sounds like he would have been a problem for you anyway.
have a great week.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/29/2006 4:11 pm:
the clown is not making a monkey out of me!! That's the Ring Master's job...now if I could just find a good master with a whip.... hmmmm

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
3/29/2006 3:51 pm

OMG, what a complete fucktard! The guy has no sense of humor and a ton of baggage himself. It's always the ones who claim to be executives and CEOs who refuse to show a picture or even give a last name, but expect you to tell them EVERYTHING about you. He's the one who sent up the giant red flags, not you. All you did was ask him to make good on his offer. Idiots abound here, I swear.

HotTXpussy4U replies on 3/29/2006 4:10 pm:
He offered..so I played - he got pissed because I called him. That's what happens when you play POKEHER and you are Bluffing!!

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