DON'T SHOOT THE DUCK!!  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
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4/9/2006 8:47 pm

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4/11/2006 1:40 am

DON'T SHOOT THE DUCK!!


Some of my favorite bloggers have been posting today about HONESTY. And that has been a subject of recent post of mine, as well. So I guess it's contagious.

MZHUNYHOLE said it best on cjcj9 blog - "Ain't it so cool how we feel safe to tell each other things about ourselves..like we're all really friends?Like its ok?I know it feels good to me"... I have to agree.

I feel like the people I blog to and read about - are my friends. I tell ya'll things I don't tell some of my best friends....let alone my family.

So in the theme of "honesty".... I will tell of my upcoming surgery. NOT major - just a life decision.

A week from tomorrow I'm having my tubes tied. A pretty normal experience I guess for all those women who have had children. But for someone like me, who has none...it seems to have brought out more opinions of what is right for ME.

For the few people in my life that know that I am doing this - they KNOW me and fully agree that for ME, it's the right thing to do. I've spent the last 20 years of my life...doing everything in my power to NOT get pregnant. And as my sexual appetite seems to only be increasing (gosh, could this site have something to do with that??? LMAO ).... it's made me more aware of how much I really have no desire to have kids at this stage of my life...not to mention it even lessens as I get older.

So, with a few snips and some days of rest afterwards. It will be done. I've had no one to talk to about this that has had any experience with my decision....I've had to go with my instincts.

I know that I can't be the first woman who has made this decision. Or for that matter, couples who have decided to go the "no children" route. I think that there will be times in my future that I might have regrets.... Like - who the heck is gonna take care of me when I'm old? But this is the right thing for me..and I have the full support of my family..which is the most important.

Years from now, if you see me walking down the street with a duck on a leash - THAT"S ME, please honk as you drive by, give me a whistle for old times sakes, and FOR GOD'S SAKE - DON'T SHOOT THE DUCK...HE'S ALL I HAVE!!!

digdug41 49M

4/9/2006 9:36 pm

hey hotx you do what feels right for you and I guess I'll cyaroun the blogs at least now you'll only have to worry bout protection from diseases foolin aroun and not pregnancy so its a good thing

roaming the cyber streets of blogland


HotTXpussy4U replies on 4/9/2006 10:02 pm:
Yep - that's what I told my family...I've always used the condoms...but there is always that percentage that could result in other things....NOT ME!! LOL

Thanks for your support. Kisses {=} HotTx

gnr8nrg 45M

4/10/2006 12:52 pm

I was thinking about DINK's the other week. Double Income No Kid. I love children, but I'm coming to the realization that it just might not be my path. Good luck with your surgery HotTX.
P.S. I wanted a vasectomy before I even had sex. My friends said I shouldn't contribute to the gene pool


HotTXpussy4U replies on 4/11/2006 1:41 am:
Oh shit.. I'm a SINK..not a DINK. Or is that Shrink-a-Dink???? Dang, the blondeness has taken over. LOL - - I think your friends and my friends are the SAME people!!! {=}

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