A blog about blogs - Enter at your own risk..  

HotTXpussy4U 48F
2177 posts
2/10/2006 2:19 pm

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A blog about blogs - Enter at your own risk..


For those that blog about everything that happens in your life..maybe this has happened to you.

So you blog..day in and day out. About this - about that. About women/men/family - and everything in between.

For me - blogging is a release. A place to put thoughts, fantasies, ideas, frustrations, love notes...whatever. And I know by blogging - that what is put out there can be read by anybody in the world.

My question is this.... if you are an avid blogger - - do you censor out what you might think or say..just because someone you know might read it?

I personally don't think there is a subject I wouldn't blog about. And if someone I happen to know reads what I blog about - - then maybe they didn't take my warnings to heart. I'm pretty upfront with people I meet (via email or in person) that I am a blogger. So if you choose to read my blogs...well, you are taking your own risk.

Maybe it's me - maybe I am the insensitive one. Just seems like I shouldn't want to feel like I should have to keep things in to myself...just to keep everything in perfect harmony.

Trust me, I've never said anything truly hurtful or mean..but I've hinted that things are not so great. Sometimes the spark isn't there. How fair is it of them to even mention it to me that they have been reading my blogs. It's fine if you are..but is it okay for you to use my blog against me?

Seems to go back to the same ol thing. I'm always trying to do everything I can to please everyone else. Trying to spare feelings, keeping my true opinions to myself. Now I am suppose to walk on tippy toes in my blogging...doesn't seem right.

I just want to be me - - - the good, the bad, and the ugly. I question whether I should feel sparks or not. If sex is just only suppose to be that..sex. If any man really knows what they want. If there are any nice/clean/good/respectable guys that also have a wild sex side to them as well.

I write about all this - - never expecting any comments..more just so that I can see the words.

If I type it - - they will come

saddletrampsk 54F

2/10/2006 2:46 pm

I find it a release to blog and also to read others blogs and comment


heteromaniac 44M
17 posts
2/10/2006 2:54 pm

There is nothing wrong with being bluntly honest about your thoughts and feelings. Just understand that some people are NOT going to be happy about everything you say! If you're interested in keeping friends and protecting feelings, then censor yourself! If not, keep it real! My feeling is......You should never feel bad about telling the truth! If something you say is not recieved well, then hopefully they can bring themselves to respect your honesty and "get over it" based on that. If not, .....Oh well!


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
2/10/2006 3:08 pm

I do censor some things.....

Purry {=}

Purry


49AK 55M
1823 posts
2/10/2006 3:26 pm

I love this entry...

When I blog, I usually have a particular audience in mind. When I write, what I do is to re-create my thoughts into something that when I am done, represents what I was thinking about, even if it might not look like that to the casual reader.

A lot of times, especially when I don't have a lot of time to sit and write, I'll do a haiku on the particular topic. It forces me to decide what I feel about the topic, and cram that into 17 syllables. Sometimes I'll do some sort of parody, especially if I am being critical, and bury the real point in there.

I've been writing lately about my interest in a very sexy young lady, but I wrote the entries so ambiguously that she would never know that it was about her. However, they still represent exactly what I meant and felt when I read them.

For me the whole benefit or writing is to crystallize what I am thinking and feeling. By writing about it, I understand it better. In fact, I think I understand my topics better by writing in a more complicated way (sometimes to hide the true meaning from people) because my literary convolutions require me to understand it better in order to do a good job with it.

I dunno if I am successful or not.


roguebiggs 39M

2/10/2006 3:30 pm

To be honest there isnt anyone I know that is on this site right now besides the few I have met here. I try to post what I think or have done but I dont want to be vulgar so yes I do censor some


Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
2/10/2006 3:32 pm

I don't censor because someone I might know would read it. I might not say things that are extremly personal. Somethings are just better left to private thoughts.


Sulabula 45F
12658 posts
2/10/2006 4:12 pm

I don't censor anything at all

I write what comes into my mind....get inspiration from conversations or events. But I always use disrection...some people might guess who i am writing about but that's all it is....a guess lol

Good Post

Sula xxx

Sula xxx

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gnr8nrg 45M

2/10/2006 7:48 pm

I censor my darker side. I do that in life too. If I met a blogger and entered a relationship with her I'd still want her to blog and I'd want to read it for insight. It's another form of communication. I don't blog about my current sexual experiences, just my past ones. It's my business and who I share that with. This is too public, but I'm much more upfront in person.


Dallas_Male_35 47M
255 posts
2/11/2006 1:24 am

To thine own self be true.


HotTXpussy4U 48F

2/11/2006 9:07 pm

WOW - all the responses are greatly appreciated. In the time since this post....I have some results.

At least for this time...seems that posting with no censor has worked out okay for me. I've had a recent conversation that was inspired because of his reading about "the spark". And because he did say something about it (not in a bad way)..it forced us to step back and look at where are relationship stood. And because we were not on the same page...now we are. And things are good.

Now we can be friends...and then just see if anything comes of it. Nothing has to be decided today - life is good.

THANKS for all the comments....glad this one had a happy ending.


Babel__Fish 45F

2/16/2006 8:58 am

I censor somethings, info that could lead someone to where I live and names are changed in my stories.

But as for the content I try not to let things that happen on this site in a negative way end up in my blog. I have seen bloggers attack one another or have their blog reflect another members blog or what goes on outside of the site.

I really liked this blog entry, it made me think and reminded me to blog for me and not others.

Babel


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