Just give me a little clue  

HotHeadDr 43F
310 posts
9/5/2006 4:12 pm

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Just give me a little clue


Ok so this one is for the guys - there is something - I kinda understand, but I really don't - only because of the way I am ... LOL ... Why is it that you guys just have a hard time telling the truth? LOL and I mean by the way of relationships... SERIOUSLY - even if it's a "fuck buddy" situation - come on guys - I don't think you'll be breaking any "guy code of honor" here... muah

if I cry give me a reason force me to my knees and use me as you will


spongesoaker 50M

9/5/2006 8:52 pm

As a certified cocksmith I took an oath of silence against defaming "playahs" as I am of Grand Poobah status myself-but I will answer your question my queen since you are so fuckin cool and have shown me some pink. Guys are self absorbed and think that if they act like they like you too much you will start clinging to them. Many playah's are just assholes who just want to fuck you and not have anything to do with you aside from cum on your tits. Many playahs would like to meet in silence, fuck you, spoo some manchowder then leave so they can watch tv Don't take that personal-they are just socially awkward-usually they lie because they don't want you to find out or interfere with other ladies they wanna fuck


HotHeadDr replies on 9/6/2006 11:29 am:
OMG sponge- what the hell are you talking about ..LOL but baby - thanks for letting me in on some things - but dammit - i already know that shit you are saying>>>>> omg ... i may be white but not that white ..LMAO

rm_glassman1 50M

9/6/2006 3:28 am

First of all what is this Truth thing you speak of? Never heard of it. Is it a new thing? Let me know cause now I am curious also. Muuaahhss!


rm_KeVAsHsac 50M/46F
1 post
9/6/2006 9:52 am

Men are the only thing on earth that can fart with thier brains this may cause a malfunction!I think that how you spell it LMAO!


HotHeadDr replies on 9/6/2006 11:26 am:
LMAO!!! well thanks for the insight sweets ... hehehehe

pinkstuff69 48M
64 posts
9/10/2006 1:13 pm

I tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Even when I'm lying!....................


HotHeadDr replies on 9/11/2006 12:06 pm:

sexymanguy1970 40M
15 posts
9/12/2006 10:07 am

Very good question HOTHEAD! The truth in the matter is most guys are jerks anyway and dont know how to treat women. When confronted about an issue they lie usually to protect themselves. However, there are some nice guys out there, that when confronted with the question that can be subjective Nice guys usually defer from the truth allowing for a happy medium. To try to spare the feelings of your mate. Although i try my best to tell the truth certain questions are backwards loaded. You Know the question like "Do I look fat in these pants". Although the woman wants you to lie to them and say "No you like just fine". They also want you to tell them the truth. but be aware that when you tell them the truth if the girl has no self esteem and cant deal. Then you try the balancing act. BLAH!!!! Women are hard o talk to, especially ones that your fond of.

Later gater!


Artimus4U 54F

9/12/2006 10:53 am

Two things come into play when people lie.

They are trying to control the reaction of the person they are lying to.

They are trying to paint themselves in as positive a light as they can. ( even to themselves)

A lot of people both men and women cant face up to what they actually do. You can only change what you acknowledge..

BTW the best relationships are made by people that make and keep commitments. That dosent mean monogamy. It does mean honesty and being an adult.

- Artimus

-rtimus
Bard of Norcal


HotHeadDr replies on 9/12/2006 12:30 pm:
Once again - how wonderfully insightful are you - Well I know to go to when I have issues ... thanks hun ...

JaggyKiltsDrain 44M
45 posts
9/17/2006 12:59 am

Sexyman started out well. Men (and woman) lie to protect themself, a friend, or to "guide" the reaction; plain and simple.

Unfortunately, some guys are low lifes and they lie all the time. Or they think they can lie to a woman (for whatever reason) and get away with it. I've seen a guy act one way to a woman, and a different way to a guy, about or over the same thing. Don't know why. That was their personal decision. But I wouldn't want a friend like that.


1teaspoonfull00 46M

12/1/2006 11:30 pm

I cannot speak for other people but the reason I cannot tell the truth is because of the fear that I might hurt the other persons feelings. I guess you can call me a coward but as far as cheating on my "significant other" I have never done it. There is more to a relationship than sex. Sex is a vehicle. If you are unhappy with that person - break it off - time will heal all wounds. If you are sexually frustrated with that person, try understanding what their needs are and try harder to fullfill them.


HotHeadDr replies on 12/3/2006 8:57 am:
I couldn't agree more - ...except on the telling the truth to prevent from hurting someone's feelings. . . Just like you said ....time heals ... so don't be a coward and if it hurts their feelings well atleast you can say - "Atleast I was honest with you"

SweetFire1964 52F

5/2/2007 11:30 pm

    Quoting spongesoaker:
    As a certified cocksmith I took an oath of silence against defaming "playahs" as I am of Grand Poobah status myself-but I will answer your question my queen since you are so fuckin cool and have shown me some pink. Guys are self absorbed and think that if they act like they like you too much you will start clinging to them. Many playah's are just assholes who just want to fuck you and not have anything to do with you aside from cum on your tits. Many playahs would like to meet in silence, fuck you, spoo some manchowder then leave so they can watch tv Don't take that personal-they are just socially awkward-usually they lie because they don't want you to find out or interfere with other ladies they wanna fuck
Boy oh boy this is so totally the truth!! It fucking sucks, yes, but I think it's the most truthful thing I've read on this site in a long time! (Just had this rude awakening myself, lol).


SweetFire1964 52F

5/2/2007 11:34 pm

    Quoting SweetFire1964:
    Boy oh boy this is so totally the truth!! It fucking sucks, yes, but I think it's the most truthful thing I've read on this site in a long time! (Just had this rude awakening myself, lol).
Oh I just had to comment on my own comment... lol... this playah totally tried to get me to be his one and only... even though that's not what I want right now... and he actually has somebody himself... but says I'm the only one he wants, that we aren't 'fucking', we are 'making love'... blah blah blah... and the thing is I would not care if he is seeing others because I am too... but he had to go and lie about it and throw that love shit into the mix... then he totally freaking busted himself in chat when he thought he was in flash! hahahahahahaha


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