HotBiAnalLover 41F
30 posts
11/3/2005 12:38 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Well I knew being bored would get me into trouble I swear I need to start using my brain or something. I decided to chat a bit on yahoo and agreed to meet someone for drinks last night. BOY WAS THAT A BIG This was actually supposed to be a cpl and turned out to be a man pretending to be a cpl. OMG how wrong is that?? So this guy comes and shakes my hand and im waiting to see the wife...whom from pictures i was very attracted to. Low and wife. No woman in sight at all as a matter of fact. He tells me that she didnt feel like comeing. Now how much bull was that. I sat there long enough to tell him he waisted my time lying to me and told him if he really has a wife then i feel sorry for her. Then i slammed my drink and came home. I was sooooooo pissed. When i got home i left HIM a very shitty offline message and deleted him. If you all didnt read it in my profile i will let ya know now I HAVE NO PATIENCE FOR LIARS!!!!! OK off to work. Ta Ta For Now.

realmom2 58M/50F

11/3/2005 8:04 pm

What!!!! You didn't run to the nearest motel and have sex with him??

Actually, you're not the first woman this has happened to, and sadly, you won't be the last. It hasn't happened to me yet, but I'm sure it's just a matter of time. And if it does, LOOK OUT!!!

Guys who pull shit like this must really think we're stupid. Like we're gonna believe the "wife" couldn't make it, but since they showed up, what the hell, let's do it anyway.

Wake up you dumb ass, knuckle dragging morons! The truth is, we're on to that trick. Come up with something more original, like maybe, the TRUTH!

WOW! That felt good. Thanks sweetie.

HotBiAnalLover 41F
6 posts
11/4/2005 1:19 pm

Hiya hun....your very Glad to help ya get that off your chest. Actually I was thinkin all those things and then some when that happened to me. I was soooooooo disgusted. But hey now that I am onto him if i only knew how to get ahold of his wife. I would definatly not be shy bout tellin her what happened. The sad thing is...I dont think she is aware of anything he is doing. And the pictures I saw....i do believe might have been part of their personal pictures that she was thinkin noone would see.....i hope not but I truley believe thats what they were now. Thanks for the post hun. Good luck to ya

rm_gumdrops2 55F
3 posts
11/4/2005 6:16 pm

The thing that pisses me off is creeps like that make it really hard for legitimate couples looking for a playmate to find one.

thinkingway2hard 51M

11/5/2005 7:03 pm

Ladies, hello. Let me add a male perspective.

I've been played a few times on here and yahoo, so I feel your frustration. I've been duped by both men (posing as women) and women (posing to be something different too).

REALMOM2 is absolutely right, all are knuckle draggers...a little behind the human development curve. As REALMOM2 puts it, it is as if we would throw up our hands and say, "what the hell, lets do it anyway."

Bottomline, these are individuals that (A) know they can't attract us normally and therefore must resort to a 'bait and switch'-type of strategy (are mentally imbalanced in believing that the world is flat and the moon is made of cheese and therefore running with scissors and playing with electricity is all A-O-K or (C) all of the above.

The best advice I can give, is to not judge the next guy or gal for the previous person's mistake.

HotBiAnalLover 41F
6 posts
11/7/2005 3:51 pm

Hiya thinkingway2hard. All of that is true. Everything both of you had said makes perfect sense to me. But to tell you the truth, I have become a bit more cautious as to whom I meet, and Im asking for a bit more proof now. I am leary about meeting anymore cpls because of the bad experience, so from now on when i do meet some online, I will get to know them for a while. Then when i feel like its gettin to the point where we might meet, I am goin to ask to speak to both of them on the phone. That way I am for sure that BOTH parties know what is goin on and that Im not being "duped" once Thanks for the posts guys.

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