sexuality versus sensuality  

HornyInHuron06 42M
8 posts
7/3/2006 6:19 pm

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7/5/2006 6:41 pm

sexuality versus sensuality

i've recently started chatting with a lady and we have a real strong connection.Before her i'd had physical sex but she has really opened my eyes to the difference between sex and sensuality.Simply by talking with her i have felt the strangest feelings.Without even talking about sex we found ourselves being totally aroused by each others conversations.She is the creative artistic type as i am,but it is more.I've never been in a serious longterm relationship so these feelings may be normal;but she has and is feeling the strangest sensation as well.I've heard of kama sutra which refers to sex as an artform and i'm seeing how true this is;although we have yet to actually have physicall contact.However,i've found eroticism/sensuality goes beyond the physical act but can be expressed through words or deeds of kindness.After chatting only a few times i feel changed.I've heard before that sensuality is lovemaking while sex is a carnal pleasure.Sensuality deals with an intimate connection while sex is impersonal.Both acts are fun and fine but I know now that sex without the intimate connection now won't be the same.It may be fun;but without longterm pleasure.Anyone else have anything to add or share on this topic?Also,is it possible to feel this intimate connectionbetween strangers or can it only occur in a commiteed relationship.?So far we have yet to meet(hopefully next week) but already i feel changed so i don't know whether we'd be considered a committed relationship;but there is a connection.What do you think?

rm_hotmamaNcols 40F
445 posts
7/3/2006 7:11 pm

I've had "sensuality" with someone I wasn't in a committed relationship with but he was no stranger either. I felt a connection but I wouldn't call it "love". Sounds like you really like her and you two are compatible on very deep profound levels. Happy for your smitten ass, Good luck!!

HornyInHuron06 42M

7/4/2006 9:24 am

thanks for your input hotmamancols.i think it may be love but it's hard to tell.

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