rantings and ramblings and aff  

HeyThereYou2 46F
28 posts
3/13/2005 9:37 pm

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rantings and ramblings and aff


this is a ranting, a mild mannered, polite, easy going rant, but still a rant.

today, my main source of annoyance are discorteous people.

i mean, so against my better judgement i accept an im invite from someone who has made it explicit my body type is not something he is interested in. but i'm bored, and i figured, what the hell, he's a gold member, he must've read my profile and was probably dazzeled by my wit, and curious enough to want to talk to me... and so i accepted the page.

we chatted for about 5 minutes, standard 'where do you live', 'lovely day', 'it's almost monday' stuff. then he asked for a pic. so i sent my standard face mug. then he went quiet. so i figured the photo didn't go through since all i could see on my chat window was a broken url, and then he said, that no, he had gotten my pic. that i was pretty. and proceeded to end the session and close his chat window.

so, i mean, what the fuck? at least have the courtesy to say 'you're not my type. gotta go' or something. don't just lie to me and close the fucking chat window (yes, i'm watching deadwood on hbo, and their manner of speach is rubbing off on me cocksuckers!)

anyhow. that was my rant for the night.

ExcitedSenses 38M

3/13/2005 10:10 pm

you'd think even online people whould have the courage to be honest. but it's just the same as in real life, too much politicking.


Jerosd 47M

3/14/2005 3:18 am

so....u wanna show me your pic?........lol


IPman 60M
313 posts
3/14/2005 5:26 am

That stinks... sorry! Don't give up there is a lid for every pot! A perfect match for you somewhere at AdultFriendFinder


swingfun70 46M

3/14/2005 6:54 am

C'est la via, C'est la vie.
That's just the way it goes, sometimes!

People are rude, life is a pain and everything is a mess. Luckily for you there are still normal people around, not every day is a bad day, and sure you'll find something brighter around if you keep on pushing through, so take it with smile. (ever noticed that smiling ppl look more appealing


eyeluv2turnUon 57M
16 posts
3/14/2005 7:08 am

LOL....."cocksucker" That is a running joke between me and my fience. We had to stop watching Deadwood when she almost said to the guy at the deli counter; "yes, one pound of LandO'Lakes, you cocksucker."
Anyway, your ranting is justified. One time my fience and I were feeling particularly slutty one evening and had this idea to have someone come over and let them watch us have sex and let them jerkoff if they would like. Here we were giving what some people could consider a once in a lifetime chance. We are no Ken and Barbie but not hard to look at either. Watching us have sex would be a very hot time for anyone (we enjoy hardcore / lusty sex, not your run-of-the-mill "three minute" thing). So this one guy we were talking to started to want to know more about what we looked liked and demanded photos, which we didn't send. We were like, "F" off pal....go pull your pud in the bathroom!


leyndokona2 49F

3/14/2005 11:25 am

makes me think about my previous blog about real people... Some people think they are just turning on a computer game when they log on AdultFriendFinder and the people they chat with are just different levels of the game. When they don't like the game anymore, for whatever reason, they just turn it off.
The good thing though is that we are better off without people like those and there are plenty of nice people out there.


ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/14/2005 12:00 pm

When I first joined AdultFriendFinder and realized that the ratio of men to women is about 200:1, I thought good God, this is pointless. Then as I talked to more and more women here, I began to realize that 90% of the men here are only looking for quickies so they can put another notch in their belt. Which is fine I guess, but many of them (maybe most of them) are willing to be deceptive in order to score. Which is good for me, because when I send an email or a wink to a women, it may take a week or two before she is able to sort through all of the idiots, but eventually I end up getting a reply back (well, most of the time).

Anyway, don't feel too bad HeyThereYou2, it happens both ways here. I've had the rug pulled out from under me once or twice here too. I think it's the cyber factor that gives people the idea that they don't have to act like decent human beings here. Tough it out. There are quite a few good people here, you just have to be patient until you find them.

Good luck and keep smiling!


rm_LacyCuffs 49F
386 posts
4/9/2005 8:40 pm

I accepted a page from this fellow just last night and he wanted to cyber(trying to make along story short)I had so many men wanting to talk to me I started to get confused(I don't Cyber,I hate It, I mean If I'm Going To fuck a machine it better Vibaraite..lol)So now I think that alot of men on here that tried speaking with me think I'm crazy..lol not to mention I have to Update My Profile(I DON'T CYBER) I think AdultFriendFinder should have some kind of guidlines of some sort.So I Can See where Some Of The Men would be pretty rude.


rm_LacyCuffs 49F
386 posts
4/9/2005 8:42 pm

I accepted a page from this fellow just last night and he wanted to cyber(trying to make along story short)I had so many men wanting to talk to me I started to get confused(I don't Cyber,I hate It, I mean If I'm Going To fuck a machine it better Vibaraite..lol)So now I think that alot of men on here that tried speaking with me think I'm crazy..lol not to mention I have to Update My Profile(I DON'T CYBER) I think AdultFriendFinder should have some kind of guidlines of some sort.So I Can See where Some Of The Men would be pretty rude.(what's Up with all the error messages...if it's not one thing it's another I hope this post will not go twice if so I am sorry...lol


garylikesfun 65M
5 posts
7/18/2005 6:30 pm

I am sorry that you have met some guys that do not know what that want or if they do they arre not able to tell you for fear that they will not get any. I am up front with everyone. If you want to know something I will tell you and that's that. You thought you had 2 guys for friends with benefits but it turned out you just had guys who when they had no one else, they came to you. You could look at it from the other side. You got laid so you got something but then did you get the total satisfaction or not. You should not stop looking for your someone. Yes people can be rude. You send an e mail to someone and they can not does say no thanks they get up set that you even mailed them. I don't get mad if someone that I do not want to meet writes. But some do not know how to be nice. I am sorry that this happen to you. Good Luck


GARY BRISBIN


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